You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you havent healed from someone you cared about, they can hurt you again. The fact she would put this in his face in the first place is a recipe for disaster. Pick another job. Its not hard. We should be doing our best to keep our environment clean of things that devalue us.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
fair enough. career and money is important though. like putting women aside. if hes being honest and this is going to be a great job for him, and hes not just taking it so he can admire-pedestal the woman, i think he should put his priorities in check. so what if some ***** is slutting around and boasting about it, thats on her. be the bigger person and focus on your own ****. look at her as who she is not who you feel she is, realize shes basic, just like the rest, see her in a bad light.
Tens of thousands of companies out there pick another location or the same job in another company. The damage is too fresh and she can influence his peers
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.