"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Going back to nexted plates?

Eph

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I've done it before and got burned for doing so, but it almost seems like I'm running out of options at my school. Most of the girls I had nexted because I wasn't being myself around them (too focused on game instead of just having fun at the time) and felt like I wasn't getting anywhere with them with an exception of a few.

Obviously now, I'm more experienced than I was then and old plates have been warming up to me again. However, when they tried this previously, I was cold to them. But now, I've been realizing my previous mistakes with them (and have gotten pretty good at cold reading who they are as a person) and was thinking about going back and doing things on my terms? Advice on what I should do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NorwegianDJ

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I dont see a problem in that.
Just act like youre best friends with a sexual undertone and lead it.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Espi said:
Very normal for me to desire a woman weeks, months,...even years after. Sometimes it's a woman with whom I enjoyed a weeks-long rendevous; other times, a woman that never met up with me and now agrees to.

I find quite a few women are interested for my being persistent and coming and going as I please. There are women I've met several years ago who I still have sex with off and on--women who have went from single to married to divorced. Or are still married.
I hope the sex doesnt apply to the last part :)

You mind me asking about the story behind your signature?
 
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