"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going back to nexted plates?

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I've done it before and got burned for doing so, but it almost seems like I'm running out of options at my school. Most of the girls I had nexted because I wasn't being myself around them (too focused on game instead of just having fun at the time) and felt like I wasn't getting anywhere with them with an exception of a few.

Obviously now, I'm more experienced than I was then and old plates have been warming up to me again. However, when they tried this previously, I was cold to them. But now, I've been realizing my previous mistakes with them (and have gotten pretty good at cold reading who they are as a person) and was thinking about going back and doing things on my terms? Advice on what I should do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont see a problem in that.
Just act like youre best friends with a sexual undertone and lead it.
 
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Espi said:
Very normal for me to desire a woman weeks, months,...even years after. Sometimes it's a woman with whom I enjoyed a weeks-long rendevous; other times, a woman that never met up with me and now agrees to.

I find quite a few women are interested for my being persistent and coming and going as I please. There are women I've met several years ago who I still have sex with off and on--women who have went from single to married to divorced. Or are still married.
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I hope the sex doesnt apply to the last part :)

You mind me asking about the story behind your signature?
 
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