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Well, im at school, and there seems to be a lot of good looking grade 8s this year. I'm in Grade 11. The girls in my grade are all ugly except for a few, who I could care less about.


Now, is It weird in high school to go after girls 3 years younger than you, or, is it even a big deal at all. Because theres a few which are ****ing hot, and the guys they talk to are pathetic, and I could out game em, in a second.


Whattya think
 

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i think 3 years is quite a bit. but if they are f***ing hot as u say they are and they seem outgoing, why the hell not? but if they are the timid/shy type, dont even bother. ull end up getting in deep sh*t
 

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FoolsGold said:
but if they are the timid/shy type, dont even bother. ull end up getting in deep sh*t
That's OK, if they're really hot and they look a bit older.

If they're shy, sometimes they can be easier, it's all to do with dominance etc. Girls like older guys.
 

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Like this one i saw, I had no clue she was in grade 8 till i asked my friends brother whos in grade 8.
 

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Captain said:
FoolsGold said:
but if they are the timid/shy type, dont even bother. ull end up getting in deep sh*t
If they're shy, sometimes they can be easier, it's all to do with dominance etc.
That's a really intersting point you bring up Captain :yes:

Although I don't really see where you're coming from...

According to both common sense and my own experience in-field, I have always found it A LOT harder & more challenging to successfully game the shy chicks :mad:

Care to elaborate on what exactly you meant by that? ;)
 

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I was thinking exactly the same thing, but i think i might just stick to 1 maybe 2 years down and well anything goodlooking under 40 haha

I kinda think 3 years is a bit to much and guys i know that have done that have lost a bit of reputation, and i certainly agree that a lot of the younger ones want an older guy and i really could p!ss all over the youngers guys games

But yeah you might find it a bit harder to get your balls wet, a lot of them will be pretty knew and you'll kind of have to teach em

I think its better to stick 1 year up or 1 year down, but hey if there's some that are damn fine and up for it, why not??

and i think the whole of captains post is summed into the last 4 words, girls like older guys
 

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Its a bit different, I'm 16 and the girls are 13....
 

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It's easier to game younger girls because they look for a more mature guy. The opposite is also true, it's hard as hell to hook up with an older girl in high school.

3 years younger would be limit... I say go for it.
 

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OTB said:
That's a really intersting point you bring up Captain :yes:

Although I don't really see where you're coming from...

According to both common sense and my own experience in-field, I have always found it A LOT harder & more challenging to successfully game the shy chicks :mad:

Care to elaborate on what exactly you meant by that? ;)
As far as shy girls at school goes, they are usually getting less attention from other guys. Been on less dates, done less sexually.

They like older guys too, most women do. They assume you're more mature :rollseyes:, which is a big plus, and you're older, so that instantly makes your more alpha than some guy in their grade. I remember getting my first car at school, I was one of the first, a lot of the girls a grade or two below me were like "oh wow you've got a car", etc.

It's-Me makes a good point about older girls. Doesn't really matter if they're older but in the same grade, but I never managed to date a girl who was in the grade above me.
 

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Yeah, I'm def more alpha than a lot of younger kids, I'm ranked Top 10 in wrestling in my weight class where I live, so that helps
 

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