Goin nowhere... still!

[Breadstick2000]

Started going out to meet women about 4 years ago. I'm still at it now.

I have read the whole bible, but living in England somethings are needed to be a little differently. (e.g. walking up to a pretty lady in a shoppin centre round my area is not accepted).

My fellow freind is v.ugly. But yes, he has solid confidence and a good sense of humour. Last weekend i was out with him and he bumped into his ex and got close to her that night and i got left on my own and went home. She was so *****y and arrogent towards me (like most women now days)

This weekend he is having his g/f stay over, as his parents are on holiday. After last weekend i refused to go town. But it is very anoying when he's going to bed with a nice girl while im at home crying with my **** in my hand.

To be honest, im not a bad lookin fella. Nothin special and far from ugly. But i understand women are attracted to men with confidence, humour and not so much looks. If you had all three you'd be gay.

When i first came here i was told 'yeah its gonna tough now, but when ur 20 ur gonna be so smooth with the ladies'. Really... im nearly 20 and still have yet to get laid or even date a girl.

My freind does know about this and was supprised. He does encourage me to get on with women better, even by introducing people he knows to me, but they are so arrogent but treat him like he's gods gift.

When i think of it, im at the point of know return. How the hell can i get the confidence without getting the experiece and success? Acting it and working out doesn't do it for me.

I've studied body language, art of conversation, releationship skills but its gettin me nowhere.

Why do i deserve to end up like this?

I get worse with women all the time, now i can't get an convo out of them and they treat me like ****.

Theres nothin in the DJ bible apart from what i know and do.

I really have blown it!!!

Thanks. (at least coming here it gave me balls)


Breadstick
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[PuertoRican_Lover]

Breadmaker, it is not in the studying but in the doing! Did you do bootcamp?

It seems like you don't take rejection well - if you don't do cold approaches in your country then I say you break from tradition or you tell your buddy's girl to start formally introducing you to babes in a social setting.

If you are a quiet type then this will hurt your chances and confidence. Guys who are loud and talkative are usually not concerned with the consequebces so they have a more daring personality - i.e. your friend.

 

[donny osmond]

"I've studied body language, art of conversation, releationship skills but its gettin me nowhere."

STUDIED, I could STUDY the meaning of life for 60 years and still have no answer

"Acting it and working out doesn't do it for me."

Do 'it' 50 times in one month in your local/exclusive bars for celebrities/clubs, basically anywhere, and tell me it dosent work

No disrespect, but you sound like a whiny *****.

Your 19. nearly 20 for pete's sake! It's not like your near dieing. Success dosen't come overnight, contrary to popular belief. Just keep at it and it'll come.

Practice, Practice, Practice.

 

[wolfie]

Originally posted by Breadstick2000
I have read the whole bible, but living in England somethings are needed to be a little differently. (e.g. walking up to a pretty lady in a shoppin centre round my area is not accepted).

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not accepted how? do the police show up as soon as you approach a woman? does she scream and attack you? do taliban militia from the ministry for the prevention of vice and promotion of virtue track you down?