"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Goddamn it... it's JCballin's turn to vent

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jpizzler said:
Okay, 'ALL' as a hyperbole then. :L
That's what baffles me, how that mindset works. Why she's the 'type' for a scratch of a fellow.

Oh well, I've years to ponder on that thought...
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Knock yourself out. Hahahahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shyt like this makes me mad. If you weren't a good guy you would be balls deep in her *****. Fukking kunt. I swear *****es are all the same.
 
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Shyt like this makes me mad. If you weren't a good guy you would be balls deep in her *****. Fukking kunt. I swear *****es are all the same.
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we as a society have turned into accepting failure and condemning success. it's ok that little Johnny can't hit a curve ball to save his life, it's ok his little league team got the sh!t kicked out of him 240-0, they will still all get ice cream and a trophy for participating.

we've also been forced to hate the guy who's a millionare because he's an "evil rich guy", nevermind that he busted his @$$ to get what he has. same thing with women, "oh I feel so sorry for that guy who's 35, lives with his grandma, drives a moped, has a rap sheet, and can't keep a job. let me throw some puzzy his way to brighten his life up some. that nice successful guy? yeah don't want him, his life is going just fine, he doesn't deserve my puzzy!".

see the similarities?
 
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You know what's funny? I think of this whole situation like the economy.

The rich aren't concerned right? They're rich. They'll be able to get by.

The poor have government support. Not that it's an ideal situation to be in but I mean they do get money from uncle sam to help keep them afloat.

The middle class gets ****ed.

In the dating world, the top tier guys will always be set. These are the guys with good genetics and good jobs. They're fine. High quality women will always be accessible.

The low quality losers luck out because they can settle for ugly, trashy girls, or get lucky and strike a pretty attractive girl who's looking to save a guy. The girl who wants to turn the scumbag into a good guy. The girl with daddy issues or low self esteem who wants to date a loser for whatever emotional stimulant it provides her.

The average guy gets shafted. Girls in his quality range always hold out for the higher quality dudes. Or go wacko and date losers. At the same time, the average guy doesn't want to lower his standards and date trash. So it's a stalemate. No one wants to date the average guy.
 
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