goddamn i think techniques fark me up

[TheFlyingMan]

I been on a massive reading phase that lasted weeks...I read all the available material obsessively...and i read them all again...

today I went out, and a HB10 actually approached me and grinded me from behind. And all these techniques ****ed me up. I was thinking ****, what would I do now? Neg her? C+F? what?

I ended up freezing. She turned me around and shook my hand and introed herself. Again I was thinking. ****, no compliments. Neg her? She's a 10, I need 3 negs.

In the end she lost all interest and told me to have a good night. I gave her ****y expressions etc.

Back in my AFC days I would have grabbed her, grinded her, and kissed her. I don't know. BUt then again in my AFC days no 10s ever grinded me, 7s at most. I am kicking myself.

What do you guys think? When I am natural, and not thinking about trying to be funny, not thinking about negging, or DHVing, it actually works better for me. My wing told me it was obvious I was too obvious I was trying to be high status etc. He told me I was a cool guy before all this reading (he's a natural, doesn't need it). I used to make chicks laugh and dig me without any routines, memorised stories, etc.

Are all these techniques rubbish, or am I just doing it the wrong way?

 

[Weak_Game]

I think alot of people belive if they read enough they can become PUA's. I still belive its something you cant learn. Its within you. You can learn new techniques to improve your game. But you cant just read and have game. This is why alot of guys fail. I never had to "go out and practice on girls for hours and hours". You need to just get out there, feel comfortable with yourself and through trial and error you will learn what works. You cant read what might work. You have to feel with it.

But im sure 100's of posters, e jockys will tell me. This method works, this method works. Ive been ****ing girls for years and i never had a method. So to each there own. Read up, get an idea, but go out into the field and **** around.

To become a pua you need to be able to adapt, overcome and improvise. Whatever situation gets thrown at you. You need to be quick. He who hesitates masterbates.

 

[xblitz44x]

today I went out, and a HB10 actually approached me and grinded me from behind. And all these techniques ****ed me up. I was thinking ****, what would I do now? Neg her? C+F? what?

Are all these techniques rubbish, or am I just doing it the wrong way?

Nope. They are rubbish. Those techniques and methods were designed to get insecure, clueless guys out in the field and give them some sort of direction. Guys who don't have confidence in themselves simply won't approach or make opportunties happen. What Mystery has done is create a system (nothing more than some if/then commands) which people can follow and it gets them out there in the game. The AFC actually has confidence now; not in himself, mind you, but in the technique. And that's all he needs.

Then he'll do what he's told and put his confidence in the methods, manage to open up an opportunity for himself and ram it home. Then he thinks: "Wow, this stuff works!"

The truth is that if you can actually be who you are and let that shyt shine, you're better off avoiding the methods altogether. You'll come across as smooth, natural, and genuine. Not to mention the fact that it's more fun to do what you want to do instead of what you're told.

 

[Rondavu]

Reading is one thing. Absorbing is another. You can read about the correct way to hit a baseball. Stance, Swing, Timing, Etc. You now have the groundwork. Now you'll go to the batting cage and find out you still suck at hitting, but you're starting off on the right foot, and taking the correct stride.

 

[wayword]

today I went out, and a HB10 actually approached me and grinded me from behind. And all these techniques ****ed me up. I was thinking ****, what would I do now? Neg her? C+F? what?

Lol, so you got opened and kino'd by an HB10...and fell into paralysis by analysis? The Game is supposed to enhance your natural persona, not replace it. No, you don't wanna be an AFC, but you don't wanna be a clueless Social Robot, either!

YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIX WHAT AIN'T BROKE!

Don't worry though, typical nooby mistake...learn from it and move on.

 

[TheFlyingMan]

Lol, so you got opened and kino'd by an HB10...and fell into paralysis by analysis? The Game is supposed to enhance your natural persona, not replace it. No, you don't wanna be an AFC, but you don't wanna be a clueless Social Robot, either!

Don't worry though, typical nooby mistake...learn from it and move on.

YES I AM FVCKING KICKING MYSELF !!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Paradigm Artisan]

I think alot of people belive if they read enough they can become PUA's. I still belive its something you cant learn. Its within you. You can learn new techniques to improve your game. But you cant just read and have game. This is why alot of guys fail. I never had to "go out and practice on girls for hours and hours". You need to just get out there, feel comfortable with yourself and through trial and error you will learn what works. You cant read what might work. You have to feel with it.

But im sure 100's of posters, e jockys will tell me. This method works, this method works. Ive been ****ing girls for years and i never had a method. So to each there own. Read up, get an idea, but go out into the field and **** around.

To become a pua you need to be able to adapt, overcome and improvise. Whatever situation gets thrown at you. You need to be quick. He who hesitates masterbates.

The difference between an amateur chef and a professional chef is experience.

The difference between a regular writer and a great writer is the emotion he puts into his work and the insights he has gained on the way.

The difference between an AFC and a Don Juan is both.


Hope you guys like that. Or was that kind of queer? What ev!!! :rockon: <-- Keep rockin!!!