God**** double standards

[gravityeyelids]

I was talking to this girl i'm good friends with and she kinda pissed me off. She hooks up a lot but doesnt bang...

She was telling her roommate how she hooked up with this guy one night (guy 1) and then the next night she hooked up with another guy (guy 2)... Guy 2 is friends with guy 1 (not roommates or anything but still. So guy 1 was pissed at her and called her a sloot. She asked me if shes a bad person and I was like "yea. don't do that s***, they're friends. friends are off limits" She was all pissed at this guy and said how he was an *******...

she seemed to think there wasnt anything wrong with it and got all defensive when I was saying there was. She even made some comment like "well you you string girls along.." ... to which I really wanted to reply "yea...but not girls in the same social circles you dumb***"

This is basically just a rant about how girls go around pretending they're all innocent and condemn guys for doing the same s*** they do. I love girls and all, but **** they're frustrating and underhanded

A wise man once said: girls cheat more than guys...they're just better at hiding it

 

[pdx1138]

fyi "hook up" = banging.

 

[DavenJuan]

Wheres the "double standard"? if anyone has double standards its us MEN.

If we had the opportunity..or better said the CONFIDENCE to attempt to sleep two women on back to back nights, regardless of their relationship to one another, im sure MOST of us would say we would. But when a woman ADMITS something like this to us men, we are quick to call them a sloot... ?

If anything, the two roommates should find better quality women to sleep with if they find women like this disturbing.

 

[goundra]

getting a QUALITY woman is going to cost you at least $10,000 and take you at least a year, on top of making yourself into one helluva man, which would take most of you forever and a day. So, you are stuck with women who don't amount to a hill of beans. If you want to change that, I just told you how to fix it.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

$10,000? In a year? On a woman? Are you insane? Why would you be spending that much money on a woman just to find out if she's quality? That's about $850 a month on her. Where are you going with her?

To the OP, women revolve around double standards, but so do men. It all depends on how you look at it. Personally, I don't see a problem in her hooking up with two men who are friends on consecutive nights, if that's what she wants to do. Does the girl know that they are friends? Even if she didn't, she was just out hooking up, if a guy is going to get butthurt because she hooked up with someone else the next night then so be it, she's clearly not the type of girl he is looking for then.

Stringing girls along is different from hooking up with multiple people. You admit you string girls along, for what? Ego boost? Personal enjoyment? She hooks up with different guys but doesn't commit to any of them like you do to the women you apparently string along.

Nobody is perfect, people do what they want.

 

[pdx1138]

Getting a quality woman doesn't cost anywhere near that.

Dating anyone for long enough, it costs money...one way or the other.

 

[DavenJuan]

This is a common feminist statement. However unfortunately for women, this "double standard" is rooted in the desires of the sexes. Double standards are rooted in the idea that two things are the same. Men and Women are NOT the same. Especially when it comes to desire.


Men find it disgusting because we are programmed to not like sluts. Women HATE this because it creates the necessity for them to hide their desire to ride the c0ck-carousel.

Women are looking for the highest value seed from men, and they really don't care how many women came before them.

This is why men will fvk a prostitute, but not commit to them.....while women will jump in the sack with George Clooney or Brad Pitt and not think twice about the 1000 women that came before them.


What you are peddling is just a sanitized version of the feminine imperative.

While its fairly easy to agree with you that men and women are NOT the same, its just as easy to point out that you are missing a major focus here..

Double standards are rooted in the idea that two things are the same. Men and Women are NOT the same. Especially when it comes to desire.

WRONG, as it relates to this topic, "double standards" are to assume the same EXPECTATIONS I expect from others, I provide towards myself

Alot of men would like to sleep with as many women as possible, and in some cases if it happens to be two sisters or best friends, then we are quick to give one another a high five for accomplishing such a feat. If a women were to do this shes labled a *****. This IS considered a "double standard". I would say the same if a woman were to be okay with sleeping around and calling a guy a man***** for doing the same. to me, no difference.

Men find it disgusting because we are programmed to not like sluts. Women HATE this because it creates the necessity for them to hide their desire to ride the c0ck-carousel.

Lets think about this for a minute. Isnt it interesting that we are programmed to not like sluts.... but we'd prefer a woman to sleep with us the first night.. Your statement also is to assume men and women share the urge for sex as one another. Even if this urge was remotely close to one another and women enjoyed the c0ck half as much as we enjoy the pvssy, arent we self perpetuating this necessity for them to HIDE their urges and desires, when in fact it only hurts us? We are shooting ourselves in the foot. Theres probably 10 threads started within the last week from men wondering want went wrong and why she didnt put out the first date, 2nd date, etc.

Women are looking for the highest value seed from men, and they really don't care how many women came before them.

AGREED. And WE are looking for the same, yet we DO CARE how many men shes slept with. We want a "bad bltch" in bed yet deny the fact her "skills" in bed were developed by other men before us. We'd like to think she magically learned how to suck c0ck

This is why men will fvk a prostitute, but not commit to them.....while women will jump in the sack with George Clooney or Brad Pitt and not think twice about the 1000 women that came before them.

AGREED. we'll fvk a pro' BEFORE we commit to a women with a "percieved" dirty past. As if her laundry list as any relation to US. Imagine the opportunities out there for alot of men that are missed because of this.

 

[DavenJuan]

Not wrong at all.

• Is it a double-standard that men have strength to fight that women do not?
• Is it a double-standard that women are naturally stronger at solidifying social networks?
• Is it a double-standard that men are rewarded differently than women when accomplishments are made?
• Is it a double-standard that women can terminate a pregnancy while men cannot walk away from being a father?

The problem with your point, is that is based on the assumption that 1 = 2, or that women = men.

You cannot get the same expectations from a man as you can from a woman, anymore than you can get the same expectations from an apple and an orange.

Both are human, but still different. Just like both apples and oranges are fruits, but still different.

Double-standards in expectations are completely based on the premise that two items are equivalent. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

Pull away that assumption, and it all falls apart.



When women complain about "double-standards", they are really just mad that men do not value women in the same way that women value men. Women want to be valued for all of the same reasons they value the top male. Accomplishments, status, money, etc,.....with not a care about how many women he has slept with.

Again, there is no double-standard here.....just two sexes who value different things, the women who hate this fact of life, and the men who cannot fathom it's meaning.

my point isnt stating there are not DOUBLE STANDARDS. my point is that WE as men EMPHASIZE this by our expectations WE PLACE on women as it relates to sexual expectations.

I agree with all your points above, yet that doesnt change that if we didnt pigeon-hole ourselves in this believe that women whose had many partners are automatically deemed a slut.

women and men ARE different. But as it relates to SOCIAL DIFFERENCES, we as men and women SET THE TONE for those differences.

Your argument is contigent on men and women being COMPLETELY different in all and every fashion of life.

At our core we are different, but social differences are created, and can be changed.

not acknowledging this IS considered a double standard, means we should just ACCEPT it for what it is. Men will conitnue to chase our tails in circles, expecting a goddess lover with us being there only experience, yet denying any women who is considered to have a "dirty" past.

 

[youngmack]

I agree with Danger. I've had countless girls tell me they would rather a man who isnt a virgin and who is experienced rather than a guy who is a virgin. The fact that men and women are not the same means that both genders both respond to different things in their own ways.

Whereas a guy would not let the number of sexual partners affect him, a woman would. Females emotionally attach to the guy they've lost their virginity to,then go and have sex with another guy a little later. How does that work? Women were not made to be able to handle many sexual partners. We have sperm they dont. We can impregnate many different women,

To me this "double standard" thing about sex is just another pathetic excuse for women to justify their slutiness. Do you see men b1tching about wanting to stay home and nurture and cook and clean? No. We play to our strengths which is working, building,being a provider,etc.

Women just need to play to their strengths and stop trying to become more like men. They cant handle it ! I rarely ever hear guys argue about double standards that are posed against them.Women always bring it up to try and cover up reality.