"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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God dammit

Zilla

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Well I'm new to the forum so hello, well here is what's up... I moved to ND working in a small town with 99% men no joke...I decided to go trolling at the local bar one night of drunken dudes and a couple of girls... Well I scored fkn miracle 15 years younger and cute.. I pull girls like this back home but here it's hard to see a cute girl let alone fk one.. Well at work my roomate got jellious and got in a pissing match at me I just told him,we can take care this after work if you like fkn pice of chit..but not before him saying next time your girl friend comes over I'm turning you in...no guest allowed here in the man camp... Fkn ****! So the next week or so no contact except phone...well today I moved and she new it and new roomy is cool,then I get the Tex... I have something to confess I think of you more as a friend are you ok with that? My Tex back was..where that come from... Her reply been thinking about it lately...... My response with copy of original... I'm very sorry but I have enough friends..... Now back home no big deal move to the next hotie but now I'm second guessing myself because this is a hard find here it's like Alaska... I won't contact here again anytime soon and would never back home at all. But I don't have **** to chose from out here.. I never did good on follow ups just going for the kill.... So what's the secret for the best chance to bang this little spinner again?.... Thanks
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lets Just Be Friends is a death sentence brother - it may not even be your fault, perhaps theres another guy or two in her life.

If pickings are that slim out there, then thats probably the case.

P.S. try editing your post into paragraphs, it makes it easier to read and youll get more responses. :up:
 
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