Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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God bless the day I discovered sosuave!

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I am translating book of pook to Russian, and right now it is just posts in a blog. All the way up to lesson 10, excluding introduction. So there are those champs posting what champs post, about how women are damaged, chasing bad boys, and they, the wonderful and un-repeated nice guys are, well, nice. I quoted pook, explain to them why they suck. But those mother fckers are proud to be champs, they even have champ bible, and champ self help manuals, everything on how to be a nice guy, even what gifts to buy, and how to make original bad poetry. Fck that!

Sht, check out this quote by Remarque, I googled it, I couldn't find it - "Women love helpless men. It is their intimate secret."

Did he write it, or did the champs made it up? It don't matter.

I discovered sosuave in 2006. I was 25 at that time, and I got fired from work on by birthday. I don't remember particulars, but when I come home I went on computer and find ebook by David D. Consumed it, and then find Book of Pook, and then this site.

How did you come across sosuave?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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