"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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god article on eye contact

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good read. Eye contact really is a powerful thing not only with women but with any kind of friendship / relationship in life.
Thanks for posting
 
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That article was ON POINT!! This is something that I have been trying to improve on myself. Not that I am a shy guy, but really was always in a hurry and rushed. For that, I missed the finer details in life. Along with eye contact I slowed my walk down trying not to miss the finer things in life. Good looking directing us to the article!
 
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Yeh good read, I'm going to apply this from now on, I don't think I hold eye contact enough with people, even though when i'm blatantly lying thats the first thing I think of, hold eye contact with them for about 5 seconds after you've said what you've said.
 
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Great article. Very powerful stuff for sure. When speaking with women, I usually try to look into their eyes the entire time, with men, sometimes, sometimes not, depends how well I know him.

How long do you guys hold eye contact?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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