"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It seems to me that not many ppl talk about setting goals, let alone solving them. I personaly Made a List of goals for this school year. This will now be a thread for self challenge. Post your goals and the way you think you can solve them. then post how much youve accomplished and how far you are from reaching your goals. Ill start. This will be fun and More Importantly if it stays near the top of this forum you will be contantly reminded of your goals

School Goals

1. Lose 15 lbs
Solution: Workout (Follow my Workout Guide and get out more)

2. Become More Outgoing/ Make More Friends
Solution: Talk to at Least 2 People a Day Other than Family or Friends

3. Get a 3.5 or better GPA
Solution: Acctually do Homework and Try in School (Do at least 1 Hour HW After School, if none Read)

4. Learn to Beat-Box
Solution: Listen to Beat-Boxers, Hang with Evan, And Practice Practice Practice

5. ReLearn The Trumpet
Solution: Go to Tuesdays at Church and Practice

6. Learn a Different Intrument (Piano/Violin/Guitare)
Solution: Find Someone who Plays it and Learn from Them


Shre your Goals, Solutions and Progress.:woo:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. Get the girl I'm after at the moment

2. Bring my guitar to school at least 3 times a week, with a partner. Practice after school, for fun. Be extremely good by the end of the year.

3. GRADES, GRADES, GRADES! I've always been one of the lazy kids who the teachers tell other students that I'm REALLY intelligent, but lazy.

that's all for now.

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4. How could I forget... get more friends with a higher status.

5. Grades AGAIN! So im allowed to play soccer this year. (I was on the line of pass/fail... RIGHT ON THE LINE! And I failed, and couldn't play this year.
 
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Good another person. We need more. This is very important. That is because being a DJ is not about chicks its about loving life and self improvement. Now what are you goin to do to improve your current state and work on your goals?
 

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1. Become friendly with at least 50% of the people in all my classes.

2. Make new friends.

3. Do well on the SAT, and get good grades (3.7 last year, aiming for 3.9)

4. Build a stronger reputation / social proof.

5. Get back into guitar.

6. More parties, more chicks.

7. Continue going to the gym regularly and put on some more muscle.
 

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1) Not waste time
2) Getting straight A+ and not settle for anything less.
3) Getting back into making money on the stock market.
4) Do exceptionally well on the SAT.
5) Become the best soccer player in the WORLD.
6) Being a STATE CHAMPION for running.
7) Find better friends (DJs who are fun to be with)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good Even more ppl. Lets keep this going. It can be like a Boot Camp where you set your own goals to challenge yourself to be better at what you WANT to be better at. And post the solutions to your goals. thats how you can measure your sucess. :woo:
 

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They made these great inventions recently

it's called a pen and paper.
 
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