"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GOALS: I OWE MYSELF

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Here is the third thread to my success.

The first was NoFap: I am currently at day 44
The second was 100 days 100 sets: Currently at day 23

This thread is going to be a weekly thread. Here is what it consists of: I owe myself these things every week. It is a little budget that I must owe myself. I have to find time throughout the week to fit these things into my schedule. I MUST. I will use this thread to track the weekly progress.

Here is the first week. It goes from Sunday to Saturday

Sunday, July 16, 2017 - Saturday, July 22, 2017

I owe myself:
3 runs
3 weight training
2 Muay Thai classes
5 stretches
5 meditations
3 walks
3 cold showers
2 writing sessions
2 reading sessions
7 approaches


We start tomorrow boys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am about to go to the gym and do a 15 minute run, a shoulder workout, and a stretch session. Then I will come home, take a cold shower, meditate and read.
 

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I am only going to focus on 4 goals for the rest of 2017.

GOAL #1: CAREER
> I need to get a new job, a job that is going to pay me more money for my skill set and something that will actually provide me with legitimate experience and benefit my path forward in life
> I have an appointment with a career councillor on Wednesday at 9:30 to go over potential jobs and look over my resume etc.
> I have to fix my linked in profile > new picture, make more connections, spruce it up, learn how to efficiently use it
> I want to apply for 5 jobs this week > low number I know, but I have to build up the capacity without draining myself out

The goal is to get a new job within 8 weeks (by September 24)

Also> as a side career goal I want to make my first Youtube video. Just do it and put it up, who cares if it is sh1t. I have to start doing these things, I will get better with time, I have to stop aiming for success and perfection right away and allow myself the room to fail and grow.

GOAL #2: EDUCATION
> I have to write my GRE tests for Master's applications
> I need to make the appointment and start studying for the test
> meaning I will have to get a GRE test guide
> It shouldn't be that hard (got straight A's in university)

The goal is to get a competitive GRE score 160-170

GOAL #3: FITNESS
> I need to work out 4 times a week
> 2x legs
> 2x upper body
> I also have to start eating more> I barely eat enough and its because I don't take the time out of the day to eat.
> and I have to stretch and meditate

The goal is to gain 10 lbs by October and another 10 lbs by December

GOAL #4: SOCIAL
> I am doing pretty good with this goal and i fear that it is taking priority over my other goals
> I have to continue to do the 100 days and 100 sets challenge which I am on day 40
> I want to sleep with another 5 girls in august
> But I also want to see, as an experiment, how I will hold up in an open relationship with my ex
> So far its been really good
> The rule for me is that I will only see her MAX 2 times a week.
> I want to build a social group and network
> and I want to build up my instagram with cool pictures that I take out and about

The goal is to be in an open relationship and develop an independence and freedom with the motivation to talk to a lot of other girls and secure a deep rooted abundance, with a cool group of friends by december.
 

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It's always motivating to see people set goals and follow through.

Keep up the good work mate!
 
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