goals but no girls

[chancer]

I moved back home after college, and got a full time job in my career to pay off my credit. I've managed to pay off 4k of credit debt in 2-3 months. My game has gone down hill big time since living with my mom. I've been on a dought for 4 months. I went to a party 3 weeks ago and got 2 numbers but they didn't even remember my name when i called... I try to go out atleast once a week. I workout 3 times a week and play basketball, so i'm in good shape. I been focusing on my goals and stuff, but enough is enough. but it's been 4 months of trying to balance out my social life and work but no girls. I don't want money or cars to do my talking...

Where do I start, what do i need to do to get these girls interested (other than the obvious--move out)?

 

[MooseGod]

My advice is to forget about girls until you get squared away with your finances--if anything they'll sink you deeper in the hole.

 

[chancer]

I'll be out of credit card debt this month. My finances are going great. But since day one of my return here, i'd say i'm heading in the right direction.

 

[tick37]

Get involved in activities where there are some women that may remember you. Maybe go to church and get involved in a singles group. Do yoga at them gym (mostly women and they won't forget you) or aerobics.

A drunk chick probably won't remember anyone unless they were making out or f'ing.

 

[Prodigy746]

Let me get this streight....you finished college and you moved back in with your MOM. GEE GEE

And you have to ask us what the problem is. What girl wants to date a 26 year old that lives with his mom.

 

[tick37]

Let me get this streight....you finished college and you moved back in with your MOM. GEE GEE

And you have to ask us what the problem is. What girl wants to date a 26 year old that lives with his mom.

Yea, that doesn't help.

 

[chancer]

It's not like i go around advertising who I live with... regardless of my reasons. I've got college friends who pick up all the time and live with their parents. One went from talking to a bunch fat girls to a bunch of pretty ones. They take their dates over to friends houses and seem to make it work. I'm here for the time being, so I'm trying to make it work too.

 

[MooseGod]

There's nothing wrong with living with your parents after college...that's what the smart people do. Your other option is take out a mortgage on a house you can't afford (think about the current lending crisis) and still try to pay back student loans.

I was pretty down on the stigma of living with the parents when I came back from school the first time around, so I got an apartment with my then-gf and was broke all the time...plus I ran up a crapload of credit card debt.

It may not be attractive now, but you'll be much happier when you're financially secure AND independent.

 

[canadianmetalhead]

prodigy youre a moron. the guy has student ddebt to pay off, living at home allows him to do that a HELL of alot faster (no rent, no bills, no paying for food etc)