"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go up weight every week?

Triangulo

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Do you guys increase the weight every week, or, every two weeks? In certain exercises I feel that i cant increase it. Should I change exercises once that occurs?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by Triangulo
Do you guys increase the weight every week, or, every two weeks? In certain exercises I feel that i cant increase it. Should I change exercises once that occurs?
....doesnt it seem logical to increase the weight once you have reached a certain number of reps (8 reps, for example)??

Theres not specific "time" limit at which you should increase your weight, but you should AIM at trying to increase it every week or two weeks. In this way you continue to add new stimulus to the muscle.
 

enkai

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This is how I do it and it's been working great for me, as long as you don't overtrain...

Last week for example

Barbell Row 3 sets

190 lbs
195 lbs
200 lbs

Those are the 3 sets, so next week, i'll start my first set with 200 lbs, so i'll do something like...

200 lbs
205 lbs
210 lbs

this way, you're not going up too much to get hurt, but enough to stimulate.
 
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