"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go to the Past, young ones....

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To all the Noobs that crowd the DJ forum:

Go BACK. By that I mean back in time. Go to the archives. There is so much more quality advice in the archives than the mediocre stuff that is on the boards these days. This board's kind of like the NBA today. Back in the day we had the Magics, the Birds, the Bill Russels, the Chaimberlins, etc. dishing out some fantastic advice. Now, all we have are Iversons, Kobes, and Glen Rices.... good at doing it for themselves but crappy at giving advice. I myself am not that good at giving out advice as the old greats on the DJ forum were. GO BACK INTO THE ARCHIVES and read every single post.


Jake
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thnx Bro...


Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen:
don't underestimate yourself jakethasnake....that was good advice right there
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I've noticed that there are a lot of new people here. I guess that is good, but it was nice to see the same people posting and get to know their personalities.

It's always adviseable to do your research before answering a question...
 
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yes, most definitely. i've been rummaging through the old articles lately, and there is a whole lot of great articles.

personally, i'd recommend posts by...

xblitz44x
SexPDX
Gunwitch
AUnit

(in no particular order of preference, btw)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The problem with relying on the board for insight to a large extent is that once people achieve and are able to sustain the level of skill they had originally wanted to be at they tend to stop reading and posting. Or...maybe they got to that level BECAUSE they stopped reading and posting. Hmmmm....that's one to think about. ;)

-PDX
 
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Originally posted by SexPDX
Or...maybe they got to that level BECAUSE they stopped reading and posting. Hmmmm....that's one to think about. ;)

-PDX
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You cannot imagine how much that has helped me in the last week alone.
 
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