"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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go to her workplace?

the pokemaster

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hi im 17 and i was making really good rapport with this 21 year old girl on the tube whilst i was on my way to notting hill carnival. however i failed to get her number because her stop was there just as i asked.

she did tell me where she works and everything and gave me that flirty "maybe i'll see you again" comment.

she works in ann summers.... i've already been asking for her but one of the staff said she already left. s

hould i go again another time? or will that seem like im desperate?

ooooor should i leave a business card and see if she calls?

ooooor should i be stalkerish and wait hide outside the shop until she finishes work:woo:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WesCottII

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You should put it on the backburner and game other women. It seems a tad desperate and stalkerish for a woman you met once.
 

Skel

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Did she invite you there? Just because I tell people where I work does not mean I want them showing up there.
 

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If she says I work at that restaurant or a bar, the proper way is to go there, sit and order. If she approaches, you're golden. Asking for her specifically is a no no.

It also looks like you've been waiting for an opportunity to ask her number. Waiting for an opportunity gets you nowhere. Universe helps those who help them selfs. Thus stop waiting for opportunities and create them for yourself. Always number close her, or more precisely, e-mail and number. (unless she's very old or very poor)

No, she's not interested in you. You're clingy.
 

Slick101

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take another HB out to her job...

Then she will start going to your job :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

the_law

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was she about 5ft8, and her hair was kinda an off blonde colour?
 

Jay Dee

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Stuntmann said:
If she says I work at that restaurant or a bar, the proper way is to go there, sit and order. If she approaches, you're golden. Asking for her specifically is a no no...
Unfortunately Ann Summers is a sex store chain in the UK targeting mainly females. So I've got to give it to Elti Boi for braving it and actually stepping in to ask for her.

I guess he'll be able to tell from her reaction whether he should continue or not. Just don't stalk the shop!
 
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