"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Go to her party?

Heraclius

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So I work in the same office as this girl. We flirt quite a bit at work, and she obviously wants my cawk. She straight up asked me for a massage in her office the other day. I denied her. Lotta sexual tension.

She invited me to her bday party for tonight, and said via text "please come to my birthday tmrw" after I'd been pretty non committal all week.

The thing is, I'd rather not drive all the way downtown and have to leave me car there overnight (there will be a lot of dranking going on). I've got a date tmrw afternoon with another broad and it would be a hassle to go get it.

Am I gonna burn bridges with his broad if i dont go after she practically begged me, or am I gonna look even more desirable and alpha? I know if a girl flaked out on my party I'd ****in next her, but women are screwy in the head and seem to like guys who ignore them , no?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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it's as if you don't even want to get laid.
 

El Payaso

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If you don't fvck this girl tonight, I will come to your house and chop your head off. Lol. Jk.

On a serious note, go to her party. When tomorrow comes, if you are still feeling up for it, go on the date. If not, just postpone with a SOLID time and place so she doesn't feel flaked on.
 

Huffman

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It's ok to push&pull, but don't just pull all the time :)
 
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