"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Go To" clothing?

mtlwlu

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Hey guys, just wondering if anyone has a "go to" shirt or something that they wear out to a club that for some reason always attracts more ladies than normal. I find having good fashion an essential tool in becoming a good pua.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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damn dude do you really pay 50 bucks for a t shirt? i don't know about most the guys on here but i know i can't afford that. but then again i've never really been a "clothes make the man" kind of thinker.
 

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(JJ) said:
damn dude do you really pay 50 bucks for a t shirt? i don't know about most the guys on here but i know i can't afford that. but then again i've never really been a "clothes make the man" kind of thinker.
True, I don't have a lot of money as well. I would probably not pay 50 for a shirt (matter of fact most I've ever spent on a shirt was 35) at most 25-30, which is pretty average Express shirts run at 26.50 or somewhere close to there so up to 30 seems reasonable to me at least for those kinds of shirts. If you don't have the money to spend then continue reading.

Another thing I do to compensate for expensive clothing is buy solid color shirts (black, green, red, blue, stay away from white unless you have a really white outfit I suppose) for about 9 bucks and make sure they fit really well and it works wonders pair it up with a good pair of jeans and some kicks and you are pretty pimpin lol.

Example: Dark blue solid color shirt no branding, well fitting dark blue jeans, and pumas would look almost as good as an expensive set of clothes.
 

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For me it has to be my lucky Y-Fronts, I've had 'em for the past ten years.....we've been everywhere together. The chicks seem to love the ol' faded, torn and dirty, worn out look. But that's enough about my arse, let me tell ya about those briefs.... ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mtlwlu

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www.threadless.com

best site out there I think

a) cheap
b) unique
c) following up on the unique part, it will be extremely rare to see some other guy wearing that shirt you have.

I bought two from there the other day, and they fit well and new ones come out every week and are designed by the average guy. Lots to choose from so take a look. none are over $25.
 

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Under normal circumstances I would try to stay away from buying on-line but that's just me. I am always afraid of them not fitting exactly how I want them to, however, in the store as I'm sure you can imagine you get to try them on and what not.

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Shirt is nice except for that awful aero logo. :p

Aero does sell cheap, I would feel like a kid if I was to wear aero, hollister, or a&f clothing and quite frankly it's not that unique, my HS 80% of the people wear those brands. If it's something you want to go into a club in then I would suggest staying away from those. Not saying it's bad but each to their own. It all comes down to whatever makes you feel comfortable, if you look in the mirror and can honestly say "damn, I look good" then I'm sure it will work.

I guess I didn't make myself clear previously my apologies, I would not spend 50 on a shirt. I just meant that as a shirt that I would prefer to wear regardless of the price and since its pretty expensive I most likely won't be wearing it lol.

EDIT: Always before shopping, look for a coupon on the internet. It will save you tons, and it won't hurt to find one.
 
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