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[pua1989]

hey guys, im in a little bit of a pickle here. this pretty cute girl, id say 7+, 8- started "liking me." so i hung out with her, picked her up at midnight and we hooked up messing around wtih eachother until 4am, but nothing more than making out and fingering, etc etc. i am a senior in high school, and i still havent swiped my v-card, and i know this girl would swack if i dated her. she texts me and calls me and i know she wants me to go out with her, but i dotn really want to, mainly because i like being single, and i dont really want to put in the effort. should i start going out with this girl so i can swack and lose my vcard before highschool ends? i know ultimately its up to me, but considering you guys were in my shoes what would u do?

 

[Patrick124]

my advice is take it slow, see how things go, dont "sk her ot be your girlfrined" ebcause thats set-in-stone BS that you dont need to dela with. go out with your boys, enjoy your senior eyar, and if u hangotu n hookup with her enough times, she'll fvck ya.
but dont be in a rush to lose it bro, tis not that big of a deal. and I mean when you go to college, if you're a virgin, I bet you you bang a slvt the first month. no rush lol.

 

[pua1989]

well, i hung out with her tonight. its basically like we are going out: we kiss when i pick her up and drop her off. i took her to a secluded area and was making otu with her, and when i went to put my hands in her pants, she said "no....wait...." which i took as a sign that she wanted to show that she wants to be bf/gf instead of a hookup.

i feel bad because i really just dont want to be in a relationship. she then called me after i dropped her off and said that she wanted me to go to the mall with her tomorrow. i told her id let her know tomorrow to make sure i could go.

is calling tomorrow and saying "hey, i really like you but i see us going into a relationship right now and i just dont want to be in one for my senior year" a good way to get my message across? i just feel kinda bad because shes a really chill girl.

any input would be awesome. thanks in advance guys.

 

[Kiko-]

Do a bit of pushing/pulling to make her want you more without going into the whole 'asking her out' routine. By pushing and pulling I mean giving her mixed signals and attracting/pulling her and then pushing her away. Women love this.

e.g. When you go to kiss her, pull out, neg her and then after a slight bit go back in.

Tease her etc. and see how far that goes. I just hope for your sake she's not a Virgin Mary waiting for marriage.

The key is to be subtle and not to rush it.