"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go out with your Sister...

wheelin&dealin

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Not on a date you sick bastard... I mean go out to a club with her and her friends.

Last weekend I went out with my sister and 5 of her friends, and can you say $$ Jackpot $$. It was just me and 6 girls. All the other chicks in the club were like "who is this pimp surrounded by 6 broads?". Little did they know I was related to one of them. Everyone in the place was looking at me as if I was the sickest player around. I could have just started tapping broads on the shoulder and telling them to write down their numbers for me. Girls were approaching me all night... it was ridiculous. I guess women attract women. All you need is a group of women friends and you're set for life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Approval from other women makes the other women more interested in you. I remember when I was in high school, and I was chatting with a girl...I always noticed from the corner of my eye that a few other girls in the room were interested in the conversation, whereas this hardly ever happened when I talked with males. I guess it must be just another psychological subtlety.
 

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When i read the title I thought you were some kind of redneck or something:p I was gonna even ask you if you had to go a step further with your sister :crazy:

Yeah is true, when i talk to a girl other girls want to join the conversation. That happens a lot in my job. But I think some sort of friend who happens to be a female would do it. I find it easy if is a group of girls I know :rockon:
 

ethnomethodologist

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lol, imagine how much better you would be if one of them WASN'T your sister;) Oh the social proof, oh the conniving ways you could play.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wheelin&dealin said:
I could have just started tapping broads on the shoulder and telling them to write down their numbers for me.
then why didn't you?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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I dont know about other countries but in the UK if a guy i seen haging around with lots of girls, people automaticly asume he is gay. This is because gay people do this due to the fact that to the girls, the gay dude is like one of the girls.
 

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
I dont know about other countries but in the UK if a guy i seen haging around with lots of girls, people automaticly asume he is gay. This is because gay people do this due to the fact that to the girls, the gay dude is like one of the girls.
same in Australia
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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