"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go out with your Sister...

wheelin&dealin

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Not on a date you sick bastard... I mean go out to a club with her and her friends.

Last weekend I went out with my sister and 5 of her friends, and can you say $$ Jackpot $$. It was just me and 6 girls. All the other chicks in the club were like "who is this pimp surrounded by 6 broads?". Little did they know I was related to one of them. Everyone in the place was looking at me as if I was the sickest player around. I could have just started tapping broads on the shoulder and telling them to write down their numbers for me. Girls were approaching me all night... it was ridiculous. I guess women attract women. All you need is a group of women friends and you're set for life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Approval from other women makes the other women more interested in you. I remember when I was in high school, and I was chatting with a girl...I always noticed from the corner of my eye that a few other girls in the room were interested in the conversation, whereas this hardly ever happened when I talked with males. I guess it must be just another psychological subtlety.
 

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When i read the title I thought you were some kind of redneck or something:p I was gonna even ask you if you had to go a step further with your sister :crazy:

Yeah is true, when i talk to a girl other girls want to join the conversation. That happens a lot in my job. But I think some sort of friend who happens to be a female would do it. I find it easy if is a group of girls I know :rockon:
 

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lol, imagine how much better you would be if one of them WASN'T your sister;) Oh the social proof, oh the conniving ways you could play.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wheelin&dealin said:
I could have just started tapping broads on the shoulder and telling them to write down their numbers for me.
then why didn't you?
 

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I dont know about other countries but in the UK if a guy i seen haging around with lots of girls, people automaticly asume he is gay. This is because gay people do this due to the fact that to the girls, the gay dude is like one of the girls.
 

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
I dont know about other countries but in the UK if a guy i seen haging around with lots of girls, people automaticly asume he is gay. This is because gay people do this due to the fact that to the girls, the gay dude is like one of the girls.
same in Australia
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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