"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Go out and find things out for yourself

MetalFortress

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Okay, I read way too many threads in which guys are asking for help with every little situation with a girl. "Hey guys what do I do, how do I what do I" Honestly, why? Those who go out and find things out for themselves are those who gain independence, become the leaders. Those who use SS as a crutch, not as a refresher course but as a drug, are worse off than they were before.

Go out and if you're not sure what to do in a situation, do something anyways. Go with your gut. Find stuff out for yourself. You might not have absolutely perfect results, but it will be WAY more satisfying. It will be you and the girl - not you, the girl, and a bunch of typing heads on an internet forum. The less people, the bigger slice of the proverbial satisfaction-pie you get.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Duke

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Most of the best PUAs in the world got started WAY before the seduction community even formed, because they WANTED IT. The smurfs who come on here with all this hesitation bull**** don't WANT IT. Using the community as a resource is fine, but it should be used to ask for feedback on what you've done already in the real world, not as a crutch for your own inability to make a decision. Need I say "Be a man!" ?

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. You might not have absolutely perfect results, but it will be WAY more satisfying. It will be you and the girl - not you, the girl, and a bunch of typing heads on an internet forum. The less people, the bigger slice of the proverbial satisfaction-pie you get


i agreed;)
 

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yes as a resource center is fine. People arn't born DJs. They either learn it by themself or from others.
 
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