"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Go in for the kill now? Or...wait...

ARrocket

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Alright, so I commented on a friend's status on facebook, and this sexy lady also commented on it. I started messing with her, and so she adds me as a friend. Couple days later, she returns the C&F by commenting on my status. Turns out this girl is a senior at the high school I just graduated from (but we didn't know each other...obviously).

I'm leaving town at the end of the week to go back to school. I'm wondering...should I send her a message and get the digits, and try to meet up with her before I leave? Or should I just leave, and just talk to her ever so briefly on facebook until I come back? I don't want to rush anything, but I don't want to let this spark die.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JDA70

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I say you go for it and try and get her digits.
You got to get that number so you can
call and get her to meet up with you somewhere
so you can look for IOIs. IF you get good eye contact
and other IOIs then your good to go.
 

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Get her number. Say your going to school and your busy. But, if she is lucky you two will hang out sometime. (with a smiley face)
 

ARrocket

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ok, I see what the general consensus is here. And it makes more sense, now that I'm not half asleep.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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