"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just wanted to make a point and a simple tip,
............. you might find it funny i know i do....... but if you follow it or not its up to you ,but its just an observation that works well for me.

When ever you go for a date BEFORE you go for a date dont have nothing to eat or when youare about to sarge
..........go when you are hungry when i say hungry im mean hungry when you havnt had anything to eat.. you see because you are hungry you really arnt in a good mood and the truth is when you arnt in a good mood you couldnt care less what anyone things of you (being in a mean mood a lil bit makes you confident unconsciously but you wont reaslize this being in a bad mood is a total seperate thing from depression, depression is a sad state of mind and depression is different from anger, depression is feeling sorry for your self and anger is when you wana speak your mind and you couldnt give a **** what anyone things. if you go sarging when hungry and you are rejected you couldnt careless because you were pissed off to begin with.. this sounds stupid but it works for me.... after im done sarging then i eat to my hearts delight.. im all muscle so if your a skinny dude that needs to add some weight then this tip isnt for you.

IF you dont agree with this or not thats your problrem i was bored so i decided to right this damn tip.
...lurker
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Because being in a bad mood is really going to make for a good date :rolleyes:
 

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I actually did some personal research on diet and confidence a while ago as I found that whenever I was dieting, my confidence plummeted, I'd get nervous and even had a few panic attacks.

Personally, I found the exact opposite is better. Eating well before any event will make you calmer and make it easier to deal with.

Besides, surely being in a good mood is far better for a date, right? Dates should be fun, or what's the point in going on one?
 

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Jariel said:
Besides, surely being in a good mood is far better for a date, right? Dates should be fun, or what's the point in going on one?
Yeah, i find a lot of people seem to go with the mentality of 'i need to impress the girl' and then they fail. But its not important about impressing hers, its about haveing a good time, a date is nothing but meeting a romantic prospect, just like you might meet a freind.

The fact that the word date was coined has been nothing but trouble because it makes things seem less casual, people are like "im going on a date im going on a daye!" really you are just meeting some girl. Think of it as no more then that, because thats all there is to it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hmmm i dunno theres some truth in this.
i seem to get more attenshun and all that when im also in a bad mood because i couldnt careless what anyone thinks.
 

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Useful I guess...

If you care about what girls think in the first place. ;)

Do as Pook says and make FUN the focus. Then none of it matters except having FUN... and sarging is always a success 'cos you're laughing your ass off.
 

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Shezz said:
The tips section these days? pfft :down:

These types of threads should be deleted in a flash - this is obsurd.

Sarge On...

what i mean is being busy and having a hectic day attracts some women to you, they see you dont have time for them they see you running around doing your job making money, they see it in your face when you are stressed and you cant be bothered about them and it attracts them to me anyway. just because it wont work for anyone else dont mean it dosnt work for me and by the way being in a edgy mood makes you speak your mind without care.

this is an alternative like thread take it or leave it but it works for me.
 

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what the **** is this?
 

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because having foul breath (from hunger) during dates makes you sexy...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this tip has worked for me b4 but not in a pick up session but at work. I was starving after not eating for 12+ hrs and man I didn't give a damn about anything. customers came in and I'm like whatever. It really does boost your confidence
 

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When I haven't eaten and i'm starving, i'm tired, irratable, have a more negative attitude, constantly thinking about food so can't think clearly enough to have a conversation. Your testosterone takes a nose dive therefore so does your sex drive, your metabolism lowers and you loose muscle mass..........Great Tip!
 
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