go ganji on a girl you've had sex with but might not reinitiate talking

[MKS82]

Basically long story short I've boned this girl recently, a couple of times and she claims she loves having sex with me and feels comfortable around me. I've known her for a bit. Then yesterday she brought up sh1t. She was asking if all I want is sex from her and I said no think she was testing cause she was like "what are your intentions?". She then said she doesn't want a relationship and we should stop hooking up because she doesn't want things to get "complicated" and ljbf. She also said I wanna feel more appreciated and go on dates. I was like wtf because we've hung out plenty of times before, as friends. She was pushing us to have sex btw. I said well I don't want something right now at the moment but wanna work on something down the road.

Well to me she is saying you just wanted to fvck me so I tested you and I feel like u used you so I am going to reject you and friendzone you and by the way there is anither guy im talking too and don't wanna feel like a slvt if I happen to bone him. Well I told her exactly this and I said do whatever you want but I don't know if ill stick around.

Then I tested the waters and asked her to go do something. Not to my surprise she came up with a lame excuse. I called her out and told her basically im going to give her space.

Im going to go ganji on her. For like 2 weeks. But im thinking she might not reinitiate espically if there is some dude she is starting to talk to. But she could call as earlt as the weekened espically if she is drunk. She's a cool girl and could do a ltr with her.

She is being scared and stupid about me and her cause I know deep down inside whe wants something more but felt the need to get at me for making her feel like a slvt. Im thinking if she does not reinitiate im going to call her and whether she answers or not im going to say "just calling to see if your done acting like a jackazz about me and you, if you are call me if not then ill see you later." if no reponse then its next. I know she's one girl blah blah so no need to type that.

 

[Metaphysical]

how old is this girl?

 

[MKS82]

She's 27 and im 26. She's looking to get hitched I think. She makes hints at having kids and getting married cause she feels she is old lol. She knows I got sh1t going for me she knows how much I make which will be close to six figures pretty soon, im well educated, dress well, she always says im one of the coolest guys blah blah and we get along great. Her shield is up right now for some reason. I don't act pushy for anything. Im going to let her do her thing this weekened by herself and see if she cracks. Not once did I talk about our relationship until she did. But I know if I knocked her up my life would be over.

 

[Warrior74]

Women use sex to get a relationship, men use a relationship to keep getting sex (with diminishing returns).

 

[MKS82]

So guess she doesn't want a relationsip or what? She was like god ur d1ck drives me crazy I have to hold myself back sometimes. Im confused cause we do have a good time all the time. Then she just turns off like that and flips? Double edge sword I guess. I tell her I want a relationship I look needy and turns her off. I say all I want is sex I look like a d1ck and make her feel like sh1t. She mentioned that she wants to feel more appreciated so I was trying to show her that by asking her out like a date but she refused. Cause the last couple times we hung out we would chiill all day maybe at the pool or her house then go out at night then fvck and that bwas it no formal dates. Im thinking to ask ker on a "date" to stop her whining. But that's if she calls me first or I call her in two weeks. If there is another dude im pretty confident I got him beat in many aspects.

 

[Warrior74]

Sounds like you can't win. When you can't win, don't play. Pull back and wait. spin plates.

 

[MKS82]

Yea I told her im going to leave her alone for a while.

 

[Metaphysical]

YOU should have not said "i am going to leave you alone for a while". You should have just done it. That would have built up more memory in her skull dome.

As for your situation, this girl gave you the LJBF speech. She isn't interested, just move on bro. You need to be a man and deal with those emotions of rejection and leave this in the past.

 

[MKS82]

Dude you don't fvck a girl raw dog like 10 times all day and all night, fvck her in the azz a couple times, have her suck ur d1ck 5 times and eat her pvssy and really think a girl really means hey lets talk about shopping and im not sexually attracted to u and say ur d1ck drives u crazy. Unless u have had a friend say that to u. If she wanted to truly be friends we would have never fvcked in the first place. She wants her options. There is something more to it either she plain and simple wants to be alone and fvck around or there's someone else.

As soon as she said ljbf I laughed and she knew it can't happen, its all or nothing and she knows that. I've had a girl so into me call me all hours 3am etc, fvck here and there, sleep togehter every night and claiming I was her little brother and or friend. Thewn she decided she decided to fvck someone else, I got p1ssed and she said "hey were only friends sowhats the big deal" same situation here. I aint going to let sh1t happen like that here cause it will if I allow it. All or nothing. Its a tactic saying hey im free with no bonds u can't tell me what to do since we are only friends, u can't get mad at me for anything cause were not together. That is what she is doing cause she wants total freedom but wants me there in some way. She knows I say fvck that to that notion.

I can understand u saying that if I fvcked her once when we were wasted but we fvcked sober also kissed each other on the lips goodbye etc. She's fooling herslef. If we hang out it isn't going to me having to sleep on the couch. If we agree to hang out with each other we are fvcking and real "jusr friends" don't do that.

 

[MKS82]

Dude you don't fvck a girl raw dog like 10 times all day and all night, fvck her in the azz a couple times, have her suck ur d1ck 5 times and eat her pvssy and really think a girl really means hey lets talk about shopping and im not sexually attracted to u and say ur d1ck drives u crazy. Unless u have had a friend say that to u. If she wanted to truly be friends we would have never fvcked in the first place. She wants her options. There is something more to it either she plain and simple wants to be alone and fvck around or there's someone else.

As soon as she said ljbf I laughed and she knew it can't happen, its all or nothing and she knows that. I've had a girl so into me call me all hours 3am etc, fvck here and there, sleep togehter every night and claiming I was her little brother and or friend. Thewn she decided she decided to fvck someone else, I got p1ssed and she said "hey were only friends sowhats the big deal" same situation here. I aint going to let sh1t happen like that here cause it will if I allow it. All or nothing. Its a tactic saying hey im free with no bonds u can't tell me what to do since we are only friends, u can't get mad at me for anything cause were not together. That is what she is doing cause she wants total freedom but wants me there in some way. She knows I say fvck that to that notion.

I can understand u saying that if I fvcked her once when we were wasted but we fvcked sober also kissed each other on the lips goodbye etc. She's fooling herslef. If we hang out it isn't going to me having to sleep on the couch. If we agree to hang out with each other we are fvcking and real "jusr friends" don't do that.