gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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If you had been reading my other thread, I was super hungup on my ex-gf. We were still seeing each other (not exclusively). She came to visit for a weekend to party and was being super distant and disrespectful. We had a complicated argument/talk while drunk, and agreed not to see each other any more. We talked sober the next day and agreed we stil wanted to see each other. Since then, i was being very standoffish after she left, via messaging her and she could tell. She started apologizing and saying she acted b!tchy and wanted to move on and saying she was thinking off me.
I've basically put her behind me and am breaking contact with her.
The best thing to do is...what else?? BANG TEN OTHER WOMEN!
My Lay Reports shall be posted here. I will (hopefully) not be resorting to banging any mediocre women while drunk just to get my numbers up. I'd rather get with women i'm actually attracted to. (Names will be altered to protect identities) So without further ado:
Lay Report #1 - Tinder girl Shelby
Was talking to this cute, short blonde girl over the summer and realized she goes to where i go to school in the fall.
We talked when i got up to school and she was super receptive to meeting up. This past weekend i was with my two roommates and we ended up going to meet Shelby and her roommate Julie at Julie's house to drink and party. (Which is almost literally right across the street from out place
). We get there, and immediately start having a good time. They're both cuter in person than i had thought. They're basically both making eyes at me, and me and it doesnt hurt that one of my roommates is a good looking dude as well so he's winging effectively. I'm running some solid game on Shelby. Being slightly indirect, making her chase me, subtly hitting on her roommate being social and the life of the party. Pretty soon shelby and I hit it off. Night goes on. makeout. Talk for a bit and mutual caressing (not sexual, like 60 years of challenge caressing).
It's 3am and i've been hungover all day from the night before and i'm tired. I suggest we head back to my place when she gives token resistance, i make it clear that i'm too tired to do much hooking up any way. (Classic....). We get back and chill for a bit then start hooking up. Im super good at fingering and going down and so i make her feel awesome. But i'm honestly too tired to get my wang up, so she kinda *****ed that i got her all worked up for nothing haha. But screw it.
She goes home the next day, and in the following few days, we're texting casually, with me letting her initate the texts and me responding, but being sporadic and casual. She flat out tells me that she had a good time and would like to see me again.
Fast forward to tonight. Make plans to hangout after she gets outta work at 10pm. I invite her over "for a spot o' tea, old chap!". She agrees but suggests i come to her place. Go there like 11. She makes tea. We chill and watch the Simpsons in the living room. I slowly ramp her up...cuddling, touching her, making out. I get her worked up enough where she just says we should go to her room. Escalate. Oral sex. Bang. Boom. Done.
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Livia - Tinder
I met up with another tinder girl, Livia, for some coffee. Did some nice flirting the night before via tinder. Didn't even pull the number. Just suggested she meet me on campus in like two hours for coffee since i've gotta go to the library anyway to get some books. Made it real casual sounding and she was down. She looked like a solid 7.5-8 in her pictures, but in person she wasn't as cute..but still a decent 7 (which is average on my personal scale). hit it off pretty well, good conversation. Before i even left she was suggesting we hangout again.
I lay off her for a few days, then re-initiate contact. She asks when we're hanging out. I'm making plans to see her wed or thurs...Trying to decide whether i should simply try to invite her over for a movie. I could take or leave her honestly, so i'd really just like to go fort he quick lay.
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Christy
I'm out at the bars...i think it was thursday night. Honestly didn't approach much at all that night. Kind of lame. But we get to this last bar later in the night and hang there for a while. I keep noticing this cute redhead all the way across the bar. We're getting ready to leave and i'm drunk enough to say "screw it, why not??". So i go right up to her. Forget what i said, but i think i was very direct. Something along the lines of:
"you looked interesting so i thought i'd come meet you" [very brief fluff talk] "My friends are getting ready to go, so let me get your number and maybe i'll hit you up"
She made a comment about how i was very bold and direct (but she said it like she was impressed), and then gave me the number. I made her call me right there and texted her while standing there . MEN THIS IS FVCKING CRUCIAL, ESPECIALLY FOR RANDO BAR GALS If possible, always get some light, flirty text rappport going that night, so you're not just some rando guy she met while drunk texting her out of the blue a few days later.
Texted her today, and she was replying relatively quickly...i'll keep you updated on this one
I've basically put her behind me and am breaking contact with her.
The best thing to do is...what else?? BANG TEN OTHER WOMEN!
My Lay Reports shall be posted here. I will (hopefully) not be resorting to banging any mediocre women while drunk just to get my numbers up. I'd rather get with women i'm actually attracted to. (Names will be altered to protect identities) So without further ado:
Lay Report #1 - Tinder girl Shelby
Was talking to this cute, short blonde girl over the summer and realized she goes to where i go to school in the fall.
We talked when i got up to school and she was super receptive to meeting up. This past weekend i was with my two roommates and we ended up going to meet Shelby and her roommate Julie at Julie's house to drink and party. (Which is almost literally right across the street from out place
). We get there, and immediately start having a good time. They're both cuter in person than i had thought. They're basically both making eyes at me, and me and it doesnt hurt that one of my roommates is a good looking dude as well so he's winging effectively. I'm running some solid game on Shelby. Being slightly indirect, making her chase me, subtly hitting on her roommate being social and the life of the party. Pretty soon shelby and I hit it off. Night goes on. makeout. Talk for a bit and mutual caressing (not sexual, like 60 years of challenge caressing).It's 3am and i've been hungover all day from the night before and i'm tired. I suggest we head back to my place when she gives token resistance, i make it clear that i'm too tired to do much hooking up any way. (Classic....). We get back and chill for a bit then start hooking up. Im super good at fingering and going down and so i make her feel awesome. But i'm honestly too tired to get my wang up, so she kinda *****ed that i got her all worked up for nothing haha. But screw it.
She goes home the next day, and in the following few days, we're texting casually, with me letting her initate the texts and me responding, but being sporadic and casual. She flat out tells me that she had a good time and would like to see me again.
Fast forward to tonight. Make plans to hangout after she gets outta work at 10pm. I invite her over "for a spot o' tea, old chap!". She agrees but suggests i come to her place. Go there like 11. She makes tea. We chill and watch the Simpsons in the living room. I slowly ramp her up...cuddling, touching her, making out. I get her worked up enough where she just says we should go to her room. Escalate. Oral sex. Bang. Boom. Done.
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Livia - Tinder
I met up with another tinder girl, Livia, for some coffee. Did some nice flirting the night before via tinder. Didn't even pull the number. Just suggested she meet me on campus in like two hours for coffee since i've gotta go to the library anyway to get some books. Made it real casual sounding and she was down. She looked like a solid 7.5-8 in her pictures, but in person she wasn't as cute..but still a decent 7 (which is average on my personal scale). hit it off pretty well, good conversation. Before i even left she was suggesting we hangout again.
I lay off her for a few days, then re-initiate contact. She asks when we're hanging out. I'm making plans to see her wed or thurs...Trying to decide whether i should simply try to invite her over for a movie. I could take or leave her honestly, so i'd really just like to go fort he quick lay.
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Christy
I'm out at the bars...i think it was thursday night. Honestly didn't approach much at all that night. Kind of lame. But we get to this last bar later in the night and hang there for a while. I keep noticing this cute redhead all the way across the bar. We're getting ready to leave and i'm drunk enough to say "screw it, why not??". So i go right up to her. Forget what i said, but i think i was very direct. Something along the lines of:
"you looked interesting so i thought i'd come meet you" [very brief fluff talk] "My friends are getting ready to go, so let me get your number and maybe i'll hit you up"
She made a comment about how i was very bold and direct (but she said it like she was impressed), and then gave me the number. I made her call me right there and texted her while standing there . MEN THIS IS FVCKING CRUCIAL, ESPECIALLY FOR RANDO BAR GALS If possible, always get some light, flirty text rappport going that night, so you're not just some rando guy she met while drunk texting her out of the blue a few days later.
Texted her today, and she was replying relatively quickly...i'll keep you updated on this one