"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pie666

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Hi just came here the other day and was both intrigued and grateful upon reading some of the content being the shy type. Now onto my question;

School has been out for almost 20 days. But while it was going on in one of my classes this girl kept trying to initiate conversations with me but I paid her no attention because I was both distracted by the actual class and was shy, the latter being the main reason. I then saw her one week into the summer vacation and was still too shy to take advantage of the situation. It has now been about 2 weeks since I have last seen her. I have her number from the school directery. Is she call-able or should I say eff it and go for someone else?
 

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arutha

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Depends a bit on what you said to her at last meeting.. If there was any mention of seeing her, then I might, but if not then it probably isn't a good idea since she didn't give her number to you. It would be better if you could see her in person again. Or when you see her again, whenever your holiday finishes or whatever.

Unless you have a mutual friend to help with a meeting if a random one doesn't seem likely?
 

dannowillbookem

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oh man shes still game. but DONT call from the school directory. k those things are for emergency only and well i burnt mine so i wouldnt be tempted. instead, wait til u see her next time and be a little friendlier and well u know theres a trillion and a half posts here about making fluff talk etc. or u can just go to the sosuave.com mainpage. get her number, THEN call her, and then etc etc.

btw better have an excuse prepared as to why u were so shy and lame before.
 

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I know about the whole shy thing. I used to be soo shy in junior high it wasn't even funny. After I got into high school, I finally kinda broke outta my shell, but you definitely shouldn't call her from the school's directory. She might get a little weirded out, and who wouldnt :p

Next time you see her, strike up a convo, get the number, and THEN call her. Until then, meet other chicks. :D
 
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