go for ex-onetis or go for new girls?

[Double]

hey men i could need some insight...or some similar story and what happened.

i met this girl 2years ago on a weekend trip....and had big onetis for about 1year, made me find this website etc.

well she was attracted to me in the beginning but i was acting more and more AFC, i was so clueless, lots of drama and stuff but no action.

well now some mates and me will travel to the same city tomorrow and she wrote me a letter and stuff some weeks ago if i come with the others and so on. she is single, but i have the impression that she is pretty sure emotional involved with her ex or some new guy.

well, i would love to hit it because she is hot, we have a lot in common and ofcourse it would be the ultimate success for me.

but although my attitude,body and apearance has changed a lot for the better and im sure she would be very interested in me if she met me now i dont know if it will have the same effect after she got to know my old me and probably still sees me this way.

if it turns out not to be successful then i will look like a played pathetic loser again. it would mean i would have learned nothing over the last year. but my broken ego wants to get her obsessed with me/fvck her to prove to myself that i have changed and to get revenge. but this ego **** is pathetic, in the game you should leave the ego at home.

i already spitted some good game at her and i know she is excited to meet me but i have doubts it will work out like i want it because it reminds me of my past mistakes and ****.

alone that im making a thread about her is patethic as hell

and my mates would give me money to buy lots of beer if i say to her hey nice to meet you but today im gonna leave you alone and bang another girl...have a nice life

in some way i still really like her personlaity and looks but all the **** that happened has poisoned my mind too much prolly but maybe i could forget all that **** when i get her to fvck....hmmm

 

[Lifeforce]

Dude.. you already know her.. when you get away that long from her you get in a zone were she will forget almost anything you have done and get emotionally neutral. You will start with instant rapport and can just make a totaly new impression. I did this with a girl I liked and we were kissing within 5 minutes!

No worries dude, you are the ****!

 

[Double]

ok so probably i will **** on the cash from my mates and go for the ex-oneitis.....because im the **** and it will be easy. but if it wont be easy and fun then i will go for other girls....i have won vs her anyway.....because now im almost anything she could want(realistically)...maybe a bit taller but height is nothing size is all!

 

[Ricky]

Best way to act around her initially is neutral. I can't explain it but it's probably cuz she expects you to make a run for her immediately.

When you get there, talk to all the other girls in the group and a bit less to her. Do this up to a point and monitor her interest level.