"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Go as far as you can while your hot

SuperChillies

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heres what i am thinking..


looks fluntuate alot..some day , u have your 5 oclock shadow , hair gelled hot

she's really into you..



the next day you might not have your hair so hot, she's not so into you.



for this reason, i am trying a new strategy called "Go for it while its HOt"

basically, while she's into you physically, you drive the relationship as far as you can go ..

speed would be critical for example.. ..you'd have your 1st the same day..or you'd meet her in your
room the same or next day...


"Go as far as you can while your hot'...basically take advantage of the fact that shes into at that moment..don't sit on your ass and attempt for a phone number to set up in like two weeks ..you know..you get it ..while she is buttered up to you ..she likes your looks...shes physically attracted to you..lets go and try to get in her pants NOW instead of being a waiting for another day when she might not be so into ...for any reason ...looks aren't sharp whatever
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Monster

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Why don't you shave and gel your hair everyday? It takes 2 f'in minutes in the AM.
 

stinkyape

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Monster said:
Why don't you shave and gel your hair everyday? It takes 2 f'in minutes in the AM.

Because personally 5 o'clock shadow and messy hair = I look hot.
 

Jason88

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stinkyape said:
Because personally 5 o'clock shadow and messy hair = I look hot.
Same here, I probably only shave every 4 days... but its whatever you want personally.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skel

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Interesting. I shave every 4 days too :p
 
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