GO around looking your Worst ? ?

[KneghtRyder]

okay guys heres a reverse-thinking thread. (Keep in my mind that I am newbie and talking just about looks disregarding the other aspects of attractiveness which may be equally important.)

when I take the time to gell my hair, shave( 5 oclock shadow ), and dress up nicely . I manage to get numbers.

If I run into them(#-closed girls) again somewhere by chance, and If I am not loooking my best, e.g. didn't do the hair or shave or check my clothes. . . I will get disinterest from these very same girls who I had number closed a few days earlier. Not all are like this, there are some girls that are into you no matter what you look like ( perhaps long term potential ones), and then there are girls you can't tell....

Its not a great feeling when they are turned off the next day. And this is what keeps me apprehensive of continuing sarging. I guess I could always just look my best, but I am looking for a Gf not a 1 nighter.

My new theory is to now go around looking your worst when you sarge ; so you get numbers from girls that are "into" you at your worst look. With the idea if they met me at my worst, ...they have basically "accepted" whatever look I am. So I can stop borthering to look good or not, and put More focus on the relationship aspect of things -- ****y funny etc.

there is potential FOR THIS to be AN relationship ...is what it means I guess.

WHat do you think of this attitue towards sarging ? ??

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

My advice is don't bother getting their phone numbers, get them in to your bed and fvck them on the day of your meeting them.
Remember hot babes enjoy sex, if you can understand this then asking girls for their phone numbers is a waste of time.
If the particular hot babe won't fvck you when you want her to, be a man and move on, continue to sarge in every possible environment that you may find yourself in, until you cold approach the hot babe that does want you to fvck her, you be the prize and don't play her stupid little games. :yes:

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

This is the same as meeting a girl in a club (beer goggles + make-up) and when you meet the next time she's a hag..

 

[Thomas94305]

KneghtRyder.. I've heard of this. There are 2 points in sarging while looking your worst:
1) Overcoming anxiety in talking with someone when you are not at your best.
2) Forming attraction apart from your looks.

Eh.. it's a tool that you may use. It just depends on where you are in your development. I would not use it regularly. But, it might provide some sort of shock therapy to snap someone out of a rut. Say.. you make certain approaches routinely, but never do others you want to.. that's anxiety. Then, looking your worst but still approaching "someone" will be a different angle in getting you to confront fears. Or, say, you only seem successful with a gal when she first EC's you from across a room.. she's already into you because of looks. But, you don't do well when you don't get that good vibe up front. Looking your worst intentionally takes away that vibe and makes you examine how to build it otherwise.

I've done the.. not shave or shower, and still go out to convo people like nothing's wrong. It gets me to just relax, let the convo's happen.

Good luck, let us know what happens.

 

[Thugo]

To be honest I think this is retarded. Go around looking your worst? This has got to be a f-cking joke.

Serial killers and rapists go around looking their worst. Is that what you are?

 

[Last Man Standing]

It depends on how worse you talking about

Your analysis forgot a critical area - because she does not know you she will only go on trivial things to make her first impression and judgment!!

If you are a carpenter and coming from a work site and see her while you are taking a lunch brake then that is something else!

 

[Raikojo17]

no, dont look ur worst. if they only liked u for ur looks than they arent worth it in the first place. dont, however, dress good to meet them and then look like crap afterwards.