Go ahead ask me ANYTHING (on-topic)

[Maxtro]

What are some easy ways inexperienced guys can talk/be sexual or emotional or whatever's needed to actually get women to see you as more than a friend?

On another forum a female member asked this of me.

I don't get it at all.
But I'm assuming a lot here.

I assume you share your sense of humor IRL; that you are friendly and talkative; that you are well-mannered but not overly conservative; that you dress fine and have good hygiene.
Your looks are a non-issue.

So, the only thing I can think of, is you don't know how to vibe.

Do you?
Do you know how to have a light-hearted conversation, using your body language, facial expressions and a bit of flirting to establish a sexual vibe?

My answer to her was that I didn't how to do the sexual vibe thing.

It's something that has completely held me back.

 

[sinnerman]

how do you maintain a girl's interest level when you're in a serious relationship ?

 

[sozzz]

I have several questions..

1. What does it mean when a girl asks if your age and if you're married at the first encounter at work? Eversince she asked this question, we never really see other much at school. When she far away but I can see her, she stares at me a lot. I work on campus and once in a while I'd glance at her and I see her staring while fixing her hair..

2. This girl has a boyfriend of 4 yrs, but flirts with all the guys at work. She tries to sit where I can see her flirt, so when I get up to go somewhere or turn the other way to talk to other people, she stops the flirting...

3. So far, half of the guys at work know I have a girlfriend, how do I avoid having enemies at work because the other half of the chumps there think I'm competing with them for the girls there when I have no intention to. The girls usually come and talk to me and we laugh. Once in a while, I would see several guys talking to each other while staring at me. I know they think I'm gaming the girls but really I'm just talking. These chumps are some sensitive mofos. They see me talking and the next day I try to say hi or nod at them, they would walk by me and not look at me or would avoid looking at me. I'm new at work too. I would hate to lose my job because these fools will try to jeapardize my job.


That's all for now. I know when I read my questions, it seems like the girls are interested, except #2(that one confuses me) but I keep doubting myself. So I thought I could hear your take on it. I have a girl, but it's fun analyzing the female species. Who knows, if my relationship doesn't work out, I could mack on the ones that showed interest. I have been on this site for a good amount and I have learned a lot. But I am still a newbie.

 

[jammy1257]

I haven't read your ebook that you sent me but I plan to after I finish my end of term exams which I should be revising for right now...

I am confused as a new member I find a lot of stuff on this forum which 'contradicts' itself, I'm stuck between changing to a Alpha Male and staying with my usual ways in hope that I will some day find someone who likes me for being me and not being an alpha that I should try to be. Whether that is an Average Frustrated CHUMP or not I don't care really...

I have talked to some Alpha males who say it's better to have a bitter attitude towards women as all women including family are evil and it's a side we don't see or know of.

I want some answers....

 

[Freddy1]

Been dating THIRTY-ONE years...had the best women in the world in my prime, now over the hill, and willing to share.

Wrote a LONG book explaining how to go from beginner AFC to world-class PUA, and created a lot of the theory many of you use, even if you don't realize it.

Willing to prove myself with sound advice. Go ahead, ask away.

Thanks for coming here bro.

My questions are is there some good conversational topics you can use to keep the conversation going? I'm having some difficulty in this area.
Also realted any tips fo conversations on online dating sites??? Often I have no clue in what to say.
Need your wisdom here.

 

[EvilAgenda]

If you were to give one piece of advice to everyone here, what would it be?