"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Glucosamine/Chondroitin for heel tendonitis??

DJ Girevik

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Ok, my healing in my heel has stagnated, despite the icepacks and Ibuprofen, and I think it is tendonitis that is the problem... would Glucosamine/Chondroitin, etc. help with that? And how well? It's pretty expensive...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Glucosamine is primarily used for athritis, not tendonitis. I haven't heard of any studies showing that it would do so. It works best in conjunction with Chrondronitin and an anti-inflamatory medicatiion prescribed by a doctor. My dad just got diagnosed with rhumatoid arthritis and i'm gonna get him on this herbal combo soon. And it isn't that expensive either... around $50 a month for the good stuff. And that's plenty cheap if it will help my overall well-being and happiness.
 

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hi, I had tendonitis from too much hard running, on my right achilles. Are you a heavy heel-striker? if your injury is even running related, you probably need shoes with more heel padding/cushion, or just new shoes. Also if you're a heel striker, try to adjust your foot strike a little so its more of a midfoot, or flat heel strike, it takes a lot of pressure off...

Other than that, I didn't run for 3 straight days, just rode the bike, and my achilles healed. Good luck
 

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I have had it for a few months. I got new soft-healed shoes for work, added gel heel-cups to them, and haven't run or squatted for about a month.
 

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read about ART (active release therapy)

If the tendonitis is too bad, you may need surgery, which is what I had on my knee, and it's completely healed, except for the mild case of bursitis I have now which is going away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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