GLL talks about how naive we are about college being easy for men (status, sex, etc.)

[Ambitious Player]

My story is interesting. I really had no success in college and it was college that made me start changing how I approach women in general. When I was in high school, I thought I would meet my future wife at college...that didn't turn out to be true!

Than something interesting happened. I moved to a college town at my late 20s and got more college girls than when I was in college. Never in a billion years would you have told me while in college that I would be better at it closer to 30 , but it happened.

But in college, status is everything. You can get laid with your style though, so if you aren't in a frat or playing a major D1 sport, look good, and get to know the right people and go to the right parties. Won't be banging super models, but who cares?

Any advice on how you managed to do that?

 

[synergy1]

Any advice on how you managed to do that?

I looked younger in college, so I was able to look like I was in college even afterwards. Obviously i kept in shape, and even snuck into the athletic arenas and played pick up sports - no one knew I was 30. But besides that, I was also luck in many regards. First, I had a group of friends who liked going out, so when I was out to the bars, I was always in a good mood. This goes a long way. If you look at most people at the bar, they are just standing there like statues. That wasn't the case with us. It also helped I knew a few people in college - they went out from time to time and that allowed for some networking.

All in all, it was just a timing thing. The key ingredients is your style, what your social circle is doing, and how good of a mood you are in. I wasn't rich, but I had a good paying job. I am not a super model, but I do well enough. But one thing I will promise you is that no one had more fun than our group. That might have made all the difference in the world.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Getting sex, ANY sex does help a dude..just in his "aura" about him. I does really suck for them, cause, for me, it's easy, because, like you said, I've got my own house, and my sh!t in order, and alllll these women I'm bangin don't! They know that I am so rock solid, so it's like sure I'll fvck him, and last night at the bar with my POF date (we only kissed in her car because it was too small, had a parking brake in the middle in the way. I rubbed her pvssy that's it. 1st date at an outside mall. Later, I hooked up with another young'un that I'd already fvcked before. Didn't get home till 3 AM dead tired from 2 separate women. I'm at the bar with the first one and some older dudes (no women with them) try to amog me, and she was so under my spell so-to-speak that nothing they did affected her. We drank a few beers, ate a full course meal at the bar lol I got the most expensive you could get cause I wanted it she just got a burger. I tipped royally and paid for hers. She thanked me but was ready to pay she'd whipped out her purse. I said, "I'm not hurtin.'" Women (well, she's early 30s) want money, looks, status at her age. The younger ones, I believe want status, looks, money in that order, but they all vary so, not set in stone. The second gal I'd already fvcked and fvcked again last night had just had her birthday (didn't do much cept get high and go to a concert, got to meet her favorite local rapper). She's a lot lower class than the POFer before (in finance mortgage industry), but a lot hotter and younger and I'd assume tighter.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

this is where you lose me, and just about everyone else in your view point



you're assuming that these women's shallowness just goes so far as the color of your skin. You ever thought that the only reason that they like the frat white guys is beucase they are in frats lol?

20 year old college chicks dont pick women for deep rational reasons is my point. they pick hot, popular, guys. You want women to chose you because

you are a great guy and you have a lot to fofer, and **** white women who are 20 don't chose white guys who are great guys and have a lot to offer lol.


and you're in for a rude f'n awakening hwen you are 25 living in a city and everyone is paring up and all the women you are supposed to like either you can't find them and the ones you can find look like land whales and you dont' have the college security blanket to meet good looking women outside your race.

I'm in a fraternity lolz, all my fraternity brothers get invited to sorority date functions except for me. Hell, I even have trouble getting dates to our functions. It's common for some ugly ass white guy to get hooked up with a date one of our date parties, but girls are like **** no to me. There's free alcohol, shirts, and everything, so turning down an opportunity to go to a date party/formal is a pretty big ordeal. Yes, not every girl here is racist. There are bad apples in a basket. However, the culture here only influences them to be racist. I'm sorry, but a traditional old southern atmosphere does not benefit minorities at all. When you have most of the student body wearing shirts with cotton or romanticized images of the antebellum south than you have to be an idiot if you think a black guy would kill it here. The ideal guy here is a good ole boy acting white guy from an affluent suburb. This puts a glass ceiling over minorities if they are trying to game most of the desirable women here. I read a handful of negative reviews about the university of Arkansas and they sound a whole lot like my school. If you aren't in a IFC organization than you are screwed over socially. SEC fraternities and sororities still harbor the traditional south in them. I was the one of the first few black guys to get in the fraternities here and that was in 2011.

The south is horrible if you are a minority trying to game white women. Yes, I see interracial couples everywhere, but the white women are trashy and fat. When I was in New York City and Miami, I saw black guys with white women that didn't resemble something seen on discovery channel. Hell, the south is just a horrible place for minorities in general. Girls, career, and etc you will hit a glass ceiling here while your good ole boy acting white friends will advance and have it easier.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I only experienced community college so doesn't really count

 

[JaegerPilot217]

If a girl is born hot, cute, pretty and good looking she is like entitled, owed or guaranteed a date or relationship when she is in her late teens and early 20's, or throughout her 20's, meanwhile men are dealt with the card of having to go out and earn it

 

[JaegerPilot217]

and another thing I hate too is that men get criticized more than women do for being bitter towards the opposite sex

 

[skinnyguy]

Getting sex, ANY sex does help a dude..just in his "aura" about him. I does really suck for them, cause, for me, it's easy, because, like you said, I've got my own house, and my sh!t in order, and alllll these women I'm bangin don't! They know that I am so rock solid, so it's like sure I'll fvck him, and last night at the bar with my POF date (we only kissed in her car because it was too small, had a parking brake in the middle in the way. I rubbed her pvssy that's it. 1st date at an outside mall. Later, I hooked up with another young'un that I'd already fvcked before. Didn't get home till 3 AM dead tired from 2 separate women. I'm at the bar with the first one and some older dudes (no women with them) try to amog me, and she was so under my spell so-to-speak that nothing they did affected her. We drank a few beers, ate a full course meal at the bar lol I got the most expensive you could get cause I wanted it she just got a burger. I tipped royally and paid for hers. She thanked me but was ready to pay she'd whipped out her purse. I said, "I'm not hurtin.'" Women (well, she's early 30s) want money, looks, status at her age. The younger ones, I believe want status, looks, money in that order, but they all vary so, not set in stone. The second gal I'd already fvcked and fvcked again last night had just had her birthday (didn't do much cept get high and go to a concert, got to meet her favorite local rapper). She's a lot lower class than the POFer before (in finance mortgage industry), but a lot hotter and younger and I'd assume tighter.

Which state are you located in?

 

[JaegerPilot217]

and lets be honest, a hot, cute, young, late teen or 20-something women has a lot of options, and they don't really need to have anything going for them in their lives in order to get laid or get a boyfriend, life is like a free food delivery service for them, that's what the banned user PlayHerMan said, who gave excellent advice