"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Glad to see this added finally!

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I was coming back to the board to thank everyone on here and their tips for the last couple of years.

I'm not on here to write that I'm leaving the board or claim I'm a master DJ, but I have to admit that this board has helped alot over the last few years. I think most importantly it has set the right mindset. I haven't been on here nearly as much lately but that's only because I'm more busy than normal, working and going to school both fulltime!

Last night kind of surprised myself. Of course I've been dating this girl for about 2 years (who I coincidentally met before I started reading this board, but believe me it's helped to explain some of her thought patterns).

Anyways I got 4 phone numbers last night when out with my friend. Two of them were Hooters girls and the first gave it to me without me even asking, then the girls roommate gave me her number as well later!. Now normally we could say that phone numbers don't mean much, but two of the 4 were offered without me even asking!

Pretty incredible.

Thanks to all
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you have a phone number to spare? (PR_L holds hand out with a frown on his face seeking pity):(
 

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Guess what. At least one of them didn't pan out. It was a fake number, which was really weird because she gave the number without asking....
 
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