"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DjLarrySmooth

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Im 20 and work as a gas station clerk. But anyway this mom comes in and has been drinking. She mentions how cute I am and such saying I beed to meet her daughter.

So I head outside and introduce myself to this pretty young lady id say an 8. We are almost immediately interrupted by her mother who is drunk, and is embarressing her daughte by saying she has never been kissed and shes shy etc...

So anyway long story short her mom tells her to give me her number. Which she ends up doing. To me the whole situation does not feel natural but I will call see if the girl is interested.

I have some free time next week to setup a date. My question to you guys is should I wait a few days before the day of the date to call her or go with the 2 day rule and build some rapport over the phone because the date would be the tues or wedsday after new years before I even to see her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DjLarrySmooth said:
Im 20 and work as a gas station clerk. But anyway this mom comes in and has been drinking. She mentions how cute I am and such saying I beed to meet her daughter.

So I head outside and introduce myself to this pretty young lady id say an 8. We are almost immediately interrupted by her mother who is drunk, and is embarressing her daughte by saying she has never been kissed and shes shy etc...

So anyway long story short her mom tells her to give me her number. Which she ends up doing. To me the whole situation does not feel natural but I will call see if the girl is interested.

I have some free time next week to setup a date. My question to you guys is should I wait a few days before the day of the date to call her or go with the 2 day rule and build some rapport over the phone because the date would be the tues or wedsday after new years before I even to see her
That's awesome!!! wait about a week, give her a call, chat her up on the phone abit if she doesn't really know who you are.

However, the chances are that she will be very inexperienced and not really know much about the game. Kino her up and give her strong eye contact on the date and kiss her before u drop her off. Then give her about another week before the next date... repeat.


...also, try to nail her mom, if shes drunk enough. How did she look??
 

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If that had been her dad you could have showed up at her house later that night naked and gotten laid hahaha. Daddy issues = slut

I'm jealous, opportunities like this are rare, so don't blow it. I agree with szyllin, wait a bit and call her up. Then make her feel insecure about her crazy/drunk mom. If she's hot but hasn't kissed a guy yet that either means she's shy, crazy or just recently became hot. Either way works in your favor.

However, this is a bit of a catch 22 since if she's crazy or really insecure she won't make a good LTR but if she's inexperienced you'll probably have to spend a good amount of time with her before you can tap that.

^^ nailing her mom, lol
 

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If that had been her dad you could have showed up at her house later that night naked and gotten laid hahaha. Daddy issues = slut

I'm jealous, opportunities like this are rare, so don't blow it. I agree with szyllin, wait a bit and call her up. Then make her feel insecure about her crazy/drunk mom. If she's hot but hasn't kissed a guy yet that either means she's shy, crazy or just recently became hot. Either way works in your favor.

However, this is a bit of a catch 22 since if she's crazy or really insecure she won't make a good LTR but if she's inexperienced you'll probably have to spend a good amount of time with her before you can tap that.

^^ nailing her mom, lol
 

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Sounds like a plan the site went off yesterday so I called. She didnt answer or have I recieved a call back but I will call one more time this weekend. Til then gotta get some more plates spinning
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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