"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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giving out facebook to girls you just met, bad or good?

tony-montana

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just wondering... to me i think it's not that good of an idea. kind of lose the mystery right? i met a girl last night we exchanged numbers and wanted to see more pictures of her and im sure she has facebook... but then if i asked for it, would probably lose that spark we had going.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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f283000

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Read the link in my signature. But your post tells me you are already taking the coward's way out. You saying you want to see more of this chic so why don't you ask her out?

You rather settle for jacking off to her pics online rather than seeing her face to face? I know this is the path you are going if you get her facebook..
 

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no i didn't say that. i was just wondering from peoples experience that's all. we have already arranged to meet next weekend i just wanted to check her out more cause i only spoke to her for 30 minutes.

i am reading your thread. looks good.

are you saying its bad to even add girls you are currently seeing? cause i did that with another girl (i don't really use facebook much anyway, i only add photos sometimes when i have been out or a status that i'm out and about, maybe like twice a week thats it.) kind of shows that i have a life and i dont give away too much.
 

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Facebook is a great way to make new connections. If they give you their card or their name and tell you that they are on FB, then you can email them there. But never be their FB friend, even (especially) if you are in a LTR.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ArcBound

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having gf is alright, a girl you just met isn't. She's supposed to wonder about you, but when she logs on to your facebook and sees jack sh!t she sates her curiosity and moves on.
 

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I don't get girls on facebook. I use it to socialize with close friends and meet attractive girls to practice game.
 

tony-montana

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ArcBound said:
having gf is alright, a girl you just met isn't. She's supposed to wonder about you, but when she logs on to your facebook and sees jack sh!t she sates her curiosity and moves on.
you sure about that? i got a girl to add me before i even had a date with her and we are having our second date next weekend. have already made out too.
 

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I use Facebook to stay in touch with girls I just met. A lot easier than 12 numbers in your phone and not remembering who's who. Plus, I travel to different cities so it's also easier to say in touch between trips.

Same for LTRs when I met my gf, I added to FB. we had a date a couple of days later. Two years we're still together and having a blast.

So IMO, FB = great communication tool.

You just have to know how to use it wisely.
 
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