“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Packers2010

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lately my sister has been being a real B*t*H to me. she has been swearing at me, and just going off at me at every chance she gets.

the thing is, every time SHE yells at me. I yell at her back and it gets me no where. i keep buying into HER frame instead of keeping my own. you can so tell i do it because i get so frustrated when it happens sometimes i am lost for words.

my question would be, how would you stop this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The problem with us as human beings is we fall into patterns.. Instead of approaching it differently you do the same thing over and over expecting different results but that never happens so you need to change your approach...

So you notice that what your doing is not working. Yelling back is not working that is good. Try different approaches such as-

"I love you too sister" *give her a huge bear hug and kiss her on the forehead* Just smother her with affection that will pull the rug from underneath her now at first she will yell more but thats when the hug and smothering comes in...

Or you could do the exact same thing I said except for yelling it at her with some swear words

"I f**king love you bi**"*smothering her again*

Or when she is putting you down just keep agreeing with her...

"yeah yeah huh never noticed that....huh..I guess thats something I need to think about"

Basically there are alot of ways to attack this but it has to be something she is not expecting. She expects you to yell back and when you do YOU turn into the bad guy in her mind and then it is all of the sudden ok in her mind...So when you detach yourself from these "words" or "meanings" then you truly begin to understand.
 
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I'm guessing you may have an iPhone or something similar.

When she starts going off her nut, just take it out and start recording.
"Please keep going, I'm just making sure I don't miss any of your constructive criticism!"

You could probably start a blog...
 
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Passive aggressive is my game. People that have to yell and scream are not in positions of control. Just stay in control. When people yell at me I still talk as if we're having a regular conversation. I just play it cool and make them look silly for getting emotional.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been reading, "When I say No, I feel guilty", basically a book on how to assert yourself and what the author suggests is when you're offended or mocked, agree with the general truth in the statement.
i.e. if someone says, "Packers2010, you're such an ignorant prick"
Just say, "You could be right, sometimes I am pretty ignorant" and just keep on doing this until with their follow up statements until they eventually run out of patience.

An interesting strategy anyway!
 
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thanks for the help guys.. I know EXACTLY what i am going to say next time.. one of my fav lines from my my fav movie..

" well... that's just like... your opinion man"
 
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hmmmm....yeaaaaaa.....that sounds retarded....Mayber I am reading it wrong?


ha ha
 
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