"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Giving in to easy, or have I just got game..?

styleman

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Hey so this girl is willing to follow my lead, take things on my terms whatever they may be... Is this a dream or have I just learnt the game??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Allurre

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This isn't a dream. It's just something new to you.

Now, continue with the lead and take control of how you want the relationship between you and her to pan out.

Have fun.
 

schttrj

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well i'm not going to pessimistic here but one girl doesn't necessarily represent all girls...also depends on the girl's level of neediness and looks...

if you want that girl only, great..don't think. just do what you are doing already. but if you wish to aim at a bigger number, play in a bigger field.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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generally if you take the lead she will follow.. most women are followers and need a man to make decisions for them whether good ones or bad. As long as you are confident and make a decision she will usually roll with it.. Even hott chicks..

I live by a saying in the Army.. "Lead, Follow, or get the fvck out of the way".. I use it in normal life too
 
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