Giving girl space to chase you

[blakeyt]

A lot of this comes down to the place your actions are coming from, women are very intuitive and can sense your underlying emotional tone to your actions very well (eg. they can smell the slightest hint of neediness from a mile away).

"Giving her space to chase you" as you say is all about flipping the typical buyer-seller dynamic between the two of you. Meaning that YOU'RE the one who's trying to decide if he want's her.

Course this is easier said than done, but a good way of thinking about this when in an interaction with a girl is this:

"If I had 5 other extremely attractive girls hitting me up trying to get my attention, how would I act towards this girl here".

It's all about the place it's coming from... Come from that place ^^ and you'll notice you'll naturally open up the space for her to chase you.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Exactly. When you're at that place, women can sense that you "get it". And women love a guy who gets it. They know that they can't take their man for granted and that they need to make efforts to keep him interested.

For a year now I've been with a woman who is vastly superior to her peers. She knows that I am independent of her and that she is a guest in my kingdom because I want her there, not because I need her there. I give her plenty of space, and she always seeks me out and misses me. Within that framework, I'm free to surprise her with affectionate and exciting moments without them being mistaken for desperation or manipulation. Because of this, these moments are precious to her because she knows beyond any doubt that they are genuine.