Giving Back

[originaldj]

I got so much out of this website so I just thought I'd try to give something back. I hope these tips will make you happier.

HOW TO BE HAPPY

these are the two most essential things in my opinion to make you happy

1) It doesn't matter what people think:
I know this has been said a lot but it is so essential. If you do not realize this then I'll try to help you. If the most popular person you know absolutely despises you, that doesn't matter. You'd still be doing the same thing you are now if he did like you. Your life wouldn't change at all.

2)You are perfect. This is in my opinion just as important as the first tip. You have to convince yourself that you are perfect and that you have all the great qualities neccesary. For example I myself am not the most social person in the world, but I convine myself that it's not important so it doesn't matter to me. It's hard to explain but you have to convince yourself that the qualties you have make you a perfect individual and the ones you don't have don't matter.

 

[MightyMate]

It does matter what people think. You think about Yourself that You are cool and smart, bu if rest of world sees You as dumb ****. It means You are the one.

 

[originaldj]

I gave advice about what make ME happy i think I'm smart and if the other 6 billion people in the world think im a dumb**, you know what? It doesn't matter because I'll still be happy.

 

[October]

Mightymate...are you suggesting that we live our lives for what other people think of us? That we can only be happy if other people like us? That would kind of suggest that we can only be happy if other people tell us we can be happy. Man...that's too limiting, if you ask me. I know that we all have to follow a certain standard to be able to live in society...but I think that's a little much.