"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Giving attention then cutting it off? Good or bad

alldidas

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A general question:
Does giving a lot of attention to girls then cutting it off all the sudden work?

Lets say a girl initiates contact with you by calling you.

Now she doesn't call for a couple of days.

You call her initiating contact she calls back and says I want to see you but you say no for legitmate reasons.

You call her again the next day to go to lunch but she doesn't pick up for whatever reason and doesn't call back that day.

Does it work if you just don't call her until she calls you? What about not even picking up the phone and calling her a couple days later?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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christz

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that would be called flakey behavior, which is bad.. and ignoreing her which is good is reccomended
 

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Im in a similar boat.

A girl seeked me out and gave me her number. We actually knew each other from before. I called Tues. night and we talked. She called my work the next day and asked how I was and we went out on a date that Friday.

The following Sunday I called and left a message. Didnt hear anything. A week goes by then I left a second message on the folowing Sat. Didnt hear anything. Then that next Monday she called me at work and said she had been busy but that she didnt forget about me. I think I made her feel bad because I said, yeah sure.. whatever. Though I said it in a teasing voice and asked her how she was. I havent called her back yet, though Im considering calling her again and asking if she wants to go to lunch during the week.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by alldidas
whats the difference

THE DIFFERENCE IS YOUR HOOKED ON A PSYCHO BYATCH!!! These DJ rules don't apply to girls who are mentally ill!!! STOP trying to disguise your posts without specifically mentioning that dumb w-hore you are infatuated with.

I know your a good guy and you want to "help her" but trust me you'll lose yourself in the process.



NEXT NEXT NEXT!!

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by darthsidious
tell me youngling, how many women have you met that are not mentally ill? very little i believe.
You seriously don't have a clue to do you? His chick is suffering from a personality disorder and that is some serious shiat!!! All chicks are wacked to a certain degree but when it gets to this hideous stage, that's when you gotta bail!!!

My gf a year ago had borderline personality disorder, loved that girl to death before I realized how fuvked up she was!! Don't EVER try to tell me you know JACK-SHAIT about mentally ill people. You don't know anything!!



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