"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Giving attention then cutting it off? Good or bad

alldidas

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A general question:
Does giving a lot of attention to girls then cutting it off all the sudden work?

Lets say a girl initiates contact with you by calling you.

Now she doesn't call for a couple of days.

You call her initiating contact she calls back and says I want to see you but you say no for legitmate reasons.

You call her again the next day to go to lunch but she doesn't pick up for whatever reason and doesn't call back that day.

Does it work if you just don't call her until she calls you? What about not even picking up the phone and calling her a couple days later?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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christz

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that would be called flakey behavior, which is bad.. and ignoreing her which is good is reccomended
 

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Im in a similar boat.

A girl seeked me out and gave me her number. We actually knew each other from before. I called Tues. night and we talked. She called my work the next day and asked how I was and we went out on a date that Friday.

The following Sunday I called and left a message. Didnt hear anything. A week goes by then I left a second message on the folowing Sat. Didnt hear anything. Then that next Monday she called me at work and said she had been busy but that she didnt forget about me. I think I made her feel bad because I said, yeah sure.. whatever. Though I said it in a teasing voice and asked her how she was. I havent called her back yet, though Im considering calling her again and asking if she wants to go to lunch during the week.
 

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Originally posted by alldidas
whats the difference

THE DIFFERENCE IS YOUR HOOKED ON A PSYCHO BYATCH!!! These DJ rules don't apply to girls who are mentally ill!!! STOP trying to disguise your posts without specifically mentioning that dumb w-hore you are infatuated with.

I know your a good guy and you want to "help her" but trust me you'll lose yourself in the process.



NEXT NEXT NEXT!!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by darthsidious
tell me youngling, how many women have you met that are not mentally ill? very little i believe.
You seriously don't have a clue to do you? His chick is suffering from a personality disorder and that is some serious shiat!!! All chicks are wacked to a certain degree but when it gets to this hideous stage, that's when you gotta bail!!!

My gf a year ago had borderline personality disorder, loved that girl to death before I realized how fuvked up she was!! Don't EVER try to tell me you know JACK-SHAIT about mentally ill people. You don't know anything!!



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