guys, question for you. quick background first -
- dating this girl for a bit
- she started playing hard to get by saying she was busy all the time. i could tell it was bs though.
- i, in turn, basically said "you don't have enough time for me, so i guess this isn't working out"
- she backed off her little game and is now trying to get me back, asking for my time and all that. flakiness is gone.
now that she is behaving well, i am considering giving her a 2nd chance, with the caveat that she is a goner if she starts that crap again. however, i am still bitter that she even pulled that on me in the first place.
so the question is, for you expert dj's....even after you have successfully turned the tables around, does that bitterness go away? i'm tempted to say "screw it". on the other hand, some would argue that i just made big progress here and that i should reap the rewards, and that nexting at this point is just dumb.
what do you think?
- dating this girl for a bit
- she started playing hard to get by saying she was busy all the time. i could tell it was bs though.
- i, in turn, basically said "you don't have enough time for me, so i guess this isn't working out"
- she backed off her little game and is now trying to get me back, asking for my time and all that. flakiness is gone.
now that she is behaving well, i am considering giving her a 2nd chance, with the caveat that she is a goner if she starts that crap again. however, i am still bitter that she even pulled that on me in the first place.
so the question is, for you expert dj's....even after you have successfully turned the tables around, does that bitterness go away? i'm tempted to say "screw it". on the other hand, some would argue that i just made big progress here and that i should reap the rewards, and that nexting at this point is just dumb.
what do you think?