"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Giving a Chick Your Number

WORKEROUTER

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If you suggest going out (or doing whatever) with a girl, and she then asks for your number, saying she'll call you, will she call if she's interested? This instance happened to me numerous times, and the chick never called.

Recently there was a HB 9-10 I approached and swapped numbers with, only to have lost her number, but never heard from her (even tho I gave her my number).

So the question is, if you give a chick her number (or swap, for that matter), but she doesn't call, is she just not interested?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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happened to me numerous times, and the chick never called
She's not interested. But you already suspected as much.
 

Fatality

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER


So the question is, if you give a chick her number (or swap, for that matter), but she doesn't call, is she just not interested?
LOL obviously

If a chick is interested she will give you her number. Not take yours. That's just how it is, the guy always calls the girl when you ask her out. Alot of girls just don't like to reject a guy to his face. They just hope you'll take the hint when they never call.
 
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