"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GIVE UP!, REWRITE who you are!

Demonicale

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Basically after years of "doing ok" with women, i decided that it would be intresting to tear down the barrier's that are holding me back from being someone who is fun and cares less about women in general.


This is'nt easy to do, but you honestly have ALOT MORE FUN!, and MANY MANY MORE WOMEN!.

All you have to do is not care about the outcome of any situation with women, don't threat over every negative thing that "COULD" happen.

Just go out, approach every women you see, make it fun (which is what it should be) .. and your be surprized at what comes your way in the form of women ;p

Since i've started this, i've had waaaay more women take notice of me and it's just REALLY funny at some of they're reactions as it takes abit of confidence too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Glad you found a way to make such significant gains! It's important for many to remember that we are the masters of who we want to be. Your past, your job, your finances, your looks, your height...none of these things define you. Only you define you.
 

Demonicale

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Uberguy said:
Glad you found a way to make such significant gains! It's important for many to remember that we are the masters of who we want to be. Your past, your job, your finances, your looks, your height...none of these things define you. Only you define you.

Now THAT was a really great reply!,I was going to say something like that.

Looks really don't make you and people can argue all they want (that's cute) ... but the evidence is out there if you look :)
 
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