"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give up or No?

toddC

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Okay, I haven't been on the forum for quite a while but this is truely the first girl in a few years that has got me thinking like her like this so I figured I would get some insight from you guys. I like to look at myself as an in-shape, good-looking guy and usually the girls don't put up much of a fight for me. But this one is different. She is BY FAR the hottest girl I've ever wanted. She is at least a 9.5 in my book. Now heres the story...

This past saturday night my friend was having a party. Now this girl, lets call her J, came over with a few of her friends (one of which is one of my best friends girlfriends, we'll call the GF GF). Ok so we were drinking having a good time and my friends GF comes over and goes hey toddC I shouldn't be telling you this but J thinks your really hot. Now after I heard that I started some game up but to be honest I do lack in that department. To make a long story short I f*cked up and she ending up leaving. Now all those girls came over again last night because it was one of their birthdays. J was there. I made sure that when I said hello I gave her the longer hug by a second or so. So the night goes on and were talking in a bunch or what not and a few times she would walk past me and do the same thing to me. She would like leave her hand on my back for a few seconds or so. Then we were all smoking. She wanted to smoke so I was like ok come in my room. Shes like ok after this shot (we were drinking). Somehow the shot got conveniently pushed back further and further to the point where they finally took it and just left. Now I don't know whats going on. I don't know if she wants me or if she was just drunk and wanted me that past Saturday. Also she didn't give me like a good good-bye it was just like a bye everyone kind of thing.

Guys I've been out of the game for quite some time so please give me answers.

Also for some reason recently I've been having trouble keeping convo with girls...why is this I just don't understand it how should I be brining up topics and what not.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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She's not into you, just playing around.

It's ok to be played once, just to find out how it feels, but don't let yourself be played again!
 

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You ****ed it up. Take decisive action next time. Make a move. Get contact info. Initiate more physical contact. Tease her, push her around, make fun of her. Get her emotionally connected to your presence.
 
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