Give Up on this one?

[johnny123]

So out with a bunch of friends and friends of friends. I get info that one of these girls is into me. So I chat her up a little, and score her digits at the end of the night. Hit her up a couple of days later and we make a tentative afternoon date, says she will let me know the night before, cause she might have to work that day or something.
Night before the planned date comes around, and still haven't heard either way from her. So I shoot her a text message to see if were still on. She says, yes. So at this point I decide to give here a call to iron out the details. I get voice mail. So send her another text, proposing a time. Time is no good for her, she gives me a different time. I say fine, where can I pick you up? No response. I give a call about an hour later. Get voice mail. This time I leave a voice message basically recapping my previous text. Get home late that night and shoot her one final message again asking where I can pick her up.
So the day of the supposed date roles around and she has gotten back to me. what the ****? Whats my play now? If she wasn't interested why not just make some excuse to begin with? Why agree to the date then not respond when I need to know where to pick her up? Why not pick up my phone calls but respond fairly promptly to my text messages? Should I try to get in touch with her in a few days, or let her make the next play? Should I ask her what the **** happened that night or just ignore it? It just seems weird considering she was the one who was interested in me, rather than being some random guy who was trying to pick her up at a bar.

 

[NotoriousBIP]

ya never know with these girls, man. Its not a big deal, so what you guys didnt go out. Try it again next time but dont send so many txts or calls. And then if you dont hear from her soon I would forget about her. She has your #, she knows your interested, if she wants some she will contact you.

 

[AKA FLEX]

What did the barber say? NEXT!

Canceling a date is one thing, but not having the respect to at least respond to your messages and texts to let you know that plans are off? Forget it, dude.

Also, try to lay off the texting, especially when you don't know the girl that well. I would have made one phone call to "iron out details" and left it at that. If she didn't pick up, I would have left a voice mail and not called back until she called me first.

 

[Mr. Bojangles]

I think you may have blown it man - you tried to call her til the cows came home. You should have texted or called her once and if she didn't reply you should have stopped communication with her until she did. Seems to me like she laid down a sh1t test and you failed with flying colours.

For now, don't call/text her again. If she is interested she will contact you. In the meantime keep looking for other girls - your current prospect doesn't seem too promising.