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Give the gift of "Not Giving" this Christmas

Alchemystic

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Give the gift of not giving any desperation
Give the gift of not giving any attention
Give the gift of not giving any neediness
Give the gift of not giving any affection to women you want to sex.
Give the gift of not giving...in to women's demand.
Give the gift of not giving...up to improving yourself.
Give the gift of not giving completely, learn to give half of what you are supposed to give. When you are gonna give a gift to your girlfriend this Christmas learn, learn to withhold a bit of it and promise to give it later. This will help you practice making women psychologically invest in you. Anything that is scarce or difficult to obtain is given higher value.

"Last Christmas, we gave 'em our hearts but the very next day, she threw it away, this year to save us from tears, we're gonna give to someone special"

And this new year, you may also want to choose any of these exercises as a New Years resolution.


Voice Exercises – Making a deep humming sound. Sing songs with deeper pitches to get your voice used to a lower pitch.

Eye Contact Exercise and Smile Exercises – Make eye contact with each person you encounter and smile. At least 100 - 1000 smile connections must be established per day.

Posture Exercise – Spread yourself as far apart in possible in a public place and just be comfortable as long as you can. Stand up straight, shoulders back, abdomen compressed.
Muscle Strengthening Exercise – Go to a gym and develop those muscles.

Endurance Exercise – Go to a gym do cardio – vascular work.
Flexibility Exercise – Attend Yoga or Dancing Classes.
Rapport Building Exercise – Talk to at least 50 – 190 strangers per day until you develop social cognitive insight or what they call as social intuition. Any kind of topic will do even the most lame situational openers will do. This will develop you approach.

Public Speaking Exercise – Live Performances, Debates, News Reporting, Magic Shows, Bands & Choirs, Teaching, Campaigning and just anything. You need to learn speak up to convey your intentions of wanting to have sex with her. This will also develop your group approach.

Grooming Exercise – Take a bath with a body scrub and soap plus shampoo your hair, shaving, clean your nails, nose, ears, eyes and everywhere. Brush and floss your teeth at least 3 times a day or more. Do this daily and every time you go out! Make sure you smell nice and subtle. Never intoxicating or too much.

Fashion Exercise – Just wear anything fashionably manly and culturally appropriate clothing with a bit of uniqueness or peacocking. Just a bit will do.

Intellectual Exercise – Read books (Any kind will do but preferably about romance and humour) Learn a new skill or a set or words or trivia everyday! Examples are learning to drive a car. Learning to paint, sculpt, cook, sing and dance. Learning to play a guitar or learning a new sport like basketball, judo, chess or boxing and or just about anything. The things mentioned above are considered as intellectual because there are different forms of intelligence. Remember intelligence may it be in the form of visual, spatial, cognitive, kinaesthetic, psycho – social, emotional, lingual and/or auditory are one of the instinctual biological sexual attraction triggers or in zoological terms “tail feathers”. This will show her that your genes are worthy of propagation.

Influence and Dominance Exercise – Practice controlling how people eat, sit, talk, smile, think, feel, work and even about the way they perceive things just about everyday. This will also increase your cognitive insights to influencing people and this gets embedded in your subconscious mind and becomes an automated motor response. You really need to master influencing people so you can influence her to have sex with you.

Physical Comfort Exercises – Try any gimmick to touch a person (Male or Female). Try touching first then proceed to hugging until kissing. Do this with at least 50 – 200 people per day. Turn physical comfort into a habit.
Financial Exercise – Get a job or open a business venture, invest in savings account, time deposits, bonds, stocks and mutual funds. Even education is an investment. Never make any loans!

Nest Building Exercise – See: Interior Decoration, Large House, Family Car.

Resistance Exercise – Practice saying NO! And try to avoid answering questions always.

Social Interaction Exercise – See: Dating. Date at least 1 girl or more per day for 1 year until it becomes a habit. This also increases social intelligence and social cognitive insight.

Sex Exercises – None! Masturbation without a girl is not allowed.

Sexuality Exercise – Looking at other women’s breast and erotic regions to constantly make yourself horny and stimulate your cerebellum or the animal part of your brain. This is to regain your lost primal or sex instincts. We have been using the logical part of our brains for far too long.

Confidence Exercises – Positive Affirmations to be repeated several times a day everyday. (No limit). Positive State Control Anchors to also be repeated several times a day everyday. (No Limit) Try also: Getting deliberately rejected by 100 – 300 girls everyday and do something you fear doing everyday. Live life to the fullest! No regrets, no excuses, no apologies, no explanations, no hesitations, no fear|!

Motivational Exercises – See: Self – Reward, Self – Praising and Feel Good Exercises.





Note: This thread is for AFC/Nice Guys.
 

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Lord Alchemystic.... you haven't finished your shut the F%$# up sandwich.
 

axxo

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mental masturbation. my advice to the OP is to get laid with hot girls.
 

GameOfNoGame

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so.. it was wrong to wish her a merry xmas? It was just a short light msg about how I hope she has a happy holiday, is feeling well & gets what said she wanted. I didn't get a reply but I didn't care about that, it just seemed like a classy thing to do especially in the face of someone who jerked me around a lot.
 

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This post is actually good. The tips given are rational and helps to kickstart the lives we need.

Appreciate ur post brother, thank you.
 
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