give the gift of missing me? but what if she's gone away?

[ztas]

hi all

my gf has gone on a 2 week holiday (without me). She said it would be a good break from each other as we have endured a few problems along the way.

Been together about 4 months now.

She's been away now 3 days and only sent me a text message to say she'd arrived.

My mind is going crazy just dying to talk to her. Left a message yesterday but no reply.

What do you guys think I should do? Let her miss me and not call for a few days?

I was thinking of waiting 2 more days before calling... Is that too soon?

I'm trying to keep busy to keep my mind off her

please advise

cheers

Z

 

[NewMan]

don't call. you need to leave things well alone - any call from you will be deemed as needy.

if your having problems, then you need to back off and let her make the first move. your showing signs of weakness.

further, you've only been together for 4 months.... your way to wrapped up in her. take this opportunity (time alone) to spend it with friends or hobbies.

 

[armadon]

Don't worry about it dude, she'll call you sooner or later even though she is on vacation. A girl with interest will call you while she is on vacation just don't expect it every single day.

 

[ztas]

hey,
thanks guys!

Esp that link to the article about 'breaks'!

Maybe she is finishing up with me. After all she confessed to being in 'love' with me just last week. But instead of making me really happy, it felt kind of strange...like she was making herself feel better by saying that...and then getting rid of me!

Z

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Ztas,
I absolutely agree with DevanE,read the site he refers too,this ties in with all my experiences too....You never go back,so start spinning plates,to give you options,on her return,well just see how it goes...

 

[STR8UP]

hey,
thanks guys!

Esp that link to the article about 'breaks'!

Maybe she is finishing up with me. After all she confessed to being in 'love' with me just last week. But instead of making me really happy, it felt kind of strange...like she was making herself feel better by saying that...and then getting rid of me!

Z

The day a man realizes that a woman is perfectly capable of professing her undying love for him one day and screwing his best friend in his very own bed the next day, is one of the most liberating days of his life.

 

[ketostix]

The day a man realizes that a woman is perfectly capable of professing her undying love for him one day and screwing his best friend in his very own bed the next day, is one of the most liberating days of his life.

That quote needs to go into someone's signature. I'm half tempted to make it my own signature.